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Ye Power Trippin' Bastards
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This is a community in the spirit of "Am I The Asshole" where people can post their own bans from lemmy or reddit or whatever and get some feedback from others whether the ban was justified or not.
Sometimes one just wants to be able to challenge the arguments some mod made and this could be the place for that.
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- Which mods/admins were being Power Tripping Bastards?
- What sanction did they impose (e.g. community ban, instance ban, removed comment)?
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- YDM new - You Deserved More: The commenter thinks you got off too lightly.
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Well, but my point is that these people whose logic is "I own this community, and so therefore I own the people within it, so whatever I think they should be allowed and not is the word of God, QED," I feel like those people wouldn't be amenable to the same logic if it were themselves in the peon position and some other person in the "word of God" position. Like if they were banned for voting the wrong way on comments within YPTB, it all of a sudden wouldn't be a totally logical and understandable thing to have happen.
The fact that YPTB doesn't work that way, and we can just kind of talk things out here (most of the time), doesn't really change that. They're still defending a system where people who think differently cannot criticize them (at least not in a direct reply in the same domain).
Exsctly, you're describing a power trip, see the name of the sub. Why is the OP who posted this in this sub then acting surprised? Lol
I'm literally not talking about any of that, I'm just saying it's childish that people are intentionally going out of their way to bully someone by calling them bro when they asked people not to. That's it. That's all I had a problem with.
Why is banning someone for voting in a way you don't like, and calling them "toxic," not bullying?
That's it. That's what I had a problem with. A lot of cultures recognize the right to self-defense, and it applies rhetorically as well as physically. And just like in the physical realm, sometimes people recognize the response as extreme when they don't see their initial provocation as "extreme" in the same way, because the people they were attacking were bad people, and so basically they deserved what they got, unlike me who didn't even do anything wrong.
I never said that wasn't bullying.
Counter-bullying isn't really bullying, though. That's some "American high school with a zero tolerance policy for violence" shit.
Call them a clown. Call them as asshole. Call them a power tripping bastard. Call them an idiot. Tell them "I don't need to call you bro to diminish your statements, you never said anything of value." There's countless ways you can criticize and even insult them without saying bro.
I can't speak for anyone else, but to me, I am practicing the subtle art of being disobedient without being hostile or unfriendly. Starting to get all mad about it would not be the point, I think I told OOP that directly that I didn't really agree with people who were getting super-hostile about it back at him either.
It's like when your sibling announces that you're not allowed to say "pancakes," you have to say "flapjacks" from now on. Guess what's going to get discussed at every breakfast using what word for a while going forward? They might get bent out of shape about it, but if so they kind of did it to themselves, and maybe getting bent out of shape is how they learn that that's not what's up and that's not the way the relationship between us works.
IDK man. I've tried any number of ways to explain this. You're not required to see it the same way as me, but pick any one of those explanations, they are different facets or ways of looking at how I look at it. I tried a few different ways. If you're not into it, I get it, but you're not going to have a lot of luck just repeating the other way until eventually you "win" or w/e.
To me it's just really really close to intentionally misgendering a person after someone stops liking them. This isn't a gender related topic though, as far as I know, so I'm not saying people are misgendering (I'd feel a lot more strongly and I think others would as well). But because it's so close to that it probably just triggers some of the same response in me.
For what it's worth, if they said something like "don't call me an asshole, I don't like that word" after someone criticized them my opinion would be different, because the original request to not be called bro was reasonable (if odd, and obviously threatening to ban people downvoting it was out of line). But being upset people are rightfully criticizing you is very different.
Man, get the fuck out of here. No it isn't, you're just grasping around for various trigger-word framings where one side of the argument has a built in "win" button.
Yes, precisely. Not liking people using the word "bro" and explaining why is fine. Banning people from using it in your community and explaining why is weird, but sure. Seeking to artificially prevent people from "promoting" it by disagreeing with you by voting on comments, and sending out snotty messages demanding that they stop voting on content in a way that you don't like, is some wild bullshit that's going to lead to people making fun of you. That's just how it works. You could wish it was otherwise, although to me it is a fine form of self expression self defense as I already explained, but it is not otherwise, that it how it is.
I feel like you just skipped over this part.