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Yep, gender is a fuck! It's messy and complicated. I have individual preferences, but no hard lines, and I don't intend on letting that define me. I even started adding "they/them" pronouns to my acceptable pronoun list even though I consider myself cis just because pronouns aren't gender, and many people don't approve of they/them pronouns. Gender is messy, and so is attraction. It's also something that changes for many people, and that's okay too!