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[-] Gustephan@lemmy.world 30 points 1 day ago

Emasculated goes a bit far but I kinda get it. It doesnt bother me if a sexual encounter starts with a toy, but "let me grab my vibrator so I can finish" is a night that ends with me feeling like I'm not good enough and probably going to bed feeling bad about myself. It's something thats turned a few dates into one night stands for me when I told them how it made me feel and they were dismissive of my feelings

[-] calliope@retrolemmy.com 12 points 1 day ago

It’s way more about anatomy than inadequacy. Many women can’t orgasm from PIV sex.

Personally, I am always delighted when someone I’ve just had sex with wants to orgasm in my presence. Never once hurt my feelings.

[-] socsa@piefed.social 7 points 1 day ago

I am trying really hard to not sex shame anyone in this thread, but fuck me, mutual masterbation is almost more intimate than intercourse these days.

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