lol I remember once with my last partner when I could tell she wasn't really into it anymore, and like fine I got the intimacy I'm here for already so I'm good, so I proposed stopping and then she kinda got offended/confused that I hadn't finished and like (1) yeah that's fine that's not my main goal here, and (2) neither did you fucker wtf is this double standard, we were literally just here for a quickie and I wanted physical contact, not to cum