Is 16 and 19 really that bad? (lemmings.world)

submitted 1 day ago by blackwitch@lemmings.world to c/asklemmy@lemmy.ml

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So, my good friend (18m) had a falling out with his ex (19m) because the ex bullied him and also because he is apparently dating a 16f, so my friend thinks he is a pedophile for obvious reasons (adult + minor).

I can see why this would be considered bad but also, when I turn 16, my girlfriend will be 19 too, as I am currently a young sophomore who is about 3 years younger than her girlfriend, a senior.

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[-] PrivateNoob@sopuli.xyz 5 points 1 day ago* (last edited 1 day ago)

I think with an european perspective 16 and 19 sounds like a bit significant difference to me, and most possibly others may get worried.

Imo 17 and 19 is totally okay, but I hope your relationship will stand and stay safe.

this post was submitted on 11 Oct 2025

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