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NSFW: I am a trans girl who is drunk and high at the same time, AMA!
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What's the hardest part of being out as trans, other than the obvious transphobes? The subtle stuff most people don't think about, I mean.
Not the OP, but if you are soliciting opinions...
For me it's the fact that nobody really believes us when we talk about our issues or even the things we personally experience. Even well meaning people, even friends, immediately assume that we are exaggerating or imagining things when we talk, or assume they know better about what is or is not harmful to us.
Like the obvious hateful transphobes are one thing. But getting that attitude from people one knows personally is tiring and more than a little scary.
This is also common with just being a woman. Womens’ experiences and feelings in general aren’t valued or taken seriously.
Yup. Absolutely. I think most minoritised groups can relate to that experience.