Linux adoption is kneecapped by its own users, who forget what normal people really care about.

Yep. My primary goal has always been: 'It just works'. I'm fairly techy, but I don't want to fix shit constantly.

What finally got me to switch was Windows no longer 'just working'. Every update was another assault that required active effort on my part. PiHole, debloating, O&O Shutup, etc, etc. This coupled with Steam bringing Linux gaming into the prime-time, means the OS that most resembles 'is just works' is no longer Windows.

For most users, Linux just works. That is the angle that should be pushed. Particularly right now there is a massive opportunity to swap your family members over. No reason for Gran to throw away her facebook machine just because it doesn't like Windows 11. Throw Mint on there, point her to the Firefox icon, and she is good to go!