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Self Improvement
A community which focusses on improving yourself. This can be in many different ways - from improving physical health or appearance, to improving mental health, creating better habits, overcoming addictions, etc.
While material circumstances beyond our control do govern much of our daily lives, people do have agency and choices to make, whether that is as "simple" as disciplining yourself to not doomscroll, to as complex as recreating yourself to have many different hobbies and habits.
This is not a place where all we do is talk about improving "productivity" (in a workplace context) and similar terms and harmful lifestyles like "grindset". Self-improvement here is intended to make you a generally better and happier person, as well as a better communist, and any other roles you may have in your life.
Rules and guidelines:
- Posts should be about self-improvement. This is obviously a wide category, and can range from advice, to finding resources, to self-posts about needing to improve in a certain area, or how you have improved, and many other things.
- Use content warnings when discussing difficult subjects.
- Do not make medical decisions solely because of a discussion you have had with any person here (e.g. whether to take or not take medications; diagnoses; etc.) as we do not vet people. All medical problems should be discussed with a real-life medical professional.
- Do not post harmful advice here. If this is seen, then please report it and we shall remove it. If you are unsure about whether it's precisely harmful advice or not but feel uneasy about it, please report it anyway.
- Do not insult other users and their lifestyles or their habits (unless they ask, I suppose). This is a place for self-improvement. Critique and discussion about a course of action is encouraged over shit-flinging. Don't talk down to people.
It's time to review our progress from October and make some plans for November.
I'm entering month 11 of something I'm half-jokingly calling "The Radical Reconstruction of the Self", which is way less dramatic than the name sounds. It's more or less just a structured plan to get myself back on my feet and working towards becoming a version of myself I actually enjoy being. In that time I've made so much progress regarding both my physical and mental health (though it hasn't been without any setbacks or struggles) that I feel like I'm nearly ready to move on to phase two. This really excites me, because it feels like (prior to starting the RRS) I had spent years trying and failing to even get to the point I was at six months ago. I can look back on the past year and be genuinely proud of myself and what I've accomplished, which is something I can't say about previous years.
For too long I have been in a protracted struggle with myself and my brainworms. HOWEVER, through the power of unrelenting hope and LOTS of hard work, it is a struggle I intend to win.