What do you simply not mention to people? (kbin.melroy.org)

submitted 1 month ago by Harkronis@kbin.melroy.org to c/asklemmy@lemmy.ml

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Whenever you do good indirect deeds for someone. Mainly because some people don't expect or normally wouldn't have wanted things to be done in certain ways because it could get them in more shit than they were in the beginning. But sometimes doing things for the good on their behalf is a benefit.

I just wouldn't mention it to them because it could sometimes create an issue where you may sometimes be faulted or may get into an argument about the morals of having done such thing. So by not mentioning it, it spares you from having to deal with that. I think it also has a net benefit because it doesn't make you look like you do good things for PR reasons.

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[-] janus2@lemmy.zip 5 points 1 month ago

half of the things i want to say (if I'm lucky) because my brain produces an endless torrent of meaningless overshare-y bullshit that I just have to desperately try to keep out of my painstakingly curated conveyor belt of approved remarks that will hopefully not get me in trouble and/or bore people to death

[-] GiorgioPerlasca@lemmy.ml 4 points 1 month ago

I think that you should keep a diary to write down that stuff.

[-] Anonymouse@lemmy.world 2 points 1 month ago

My SO calls this diarrhea of the mouth. It's quite the affliction.

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