I do have some friends that want to call every errant behavior some neurodivergance, and it does irk me a little, but also, in the case of ADHD (and others), the masking often makes it really hard to diagnose or even understand what's going on under the hood for someone sometimes, so I try to give behavior like that a lot of leeway. And also always encourage people to get evaluated. I'm also also just starting to come to terms with I'm pretty sure my mother has ADHD and is really good at masking.