how long do you need to be Ina relationship with someone before you can say 'Go fuck yourself, I love you too.' and your partner will respond with a chuckle instead of a blood fued? (startrek.website)

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Literally just had this exchange with my partner of 26 years. I'm curious about how typical our interaction is in the wider Lemmyverse.

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[-] teawrecks@sopuli.xyz 2 points 2 months ago

I've been with my partner for 16 years. We met one of my friends for brunch last year, and afterwards he and I hung out, while my partner went home. Before she left, my friend said, "it was so good to see you " and hugged her. Then she turned to me and I said, "bye bitch, see ya at the house". We laughed and she took off. My friend was like, "dude, I can't believe you said that and she was cool with it. My gf would be pissed at me for days!"

So yeah, I got a good one :)

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