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Would you try a FOSS dating app?
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this post was submitted on 23 Nov 2025
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the tinder system doesnt' show you how 99.9% of women are rejecting you. just like the lottery, the point is the delusion that you might 'win' even though statistically, you won't ever.
if the average user saw that reality, they'd give up. they would not try to improve.
apps can't fix biological imperatives. all they do is magnify them. i'm a guy who gets matches on apps regularly... most women interpret my profile as the complete opposite of what it says. it's hilarious. but that's because people see what they want to see, they don't see what you literally tell them.
not my problem honestly