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Best friend of 2 years turned out to be toxic.
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Well, something has happened. And it looks like you are not trying to figure out what exactly. This kind of changes don't come out of nowhere. There is always a reason.
How would op know if there being told to stop contacting them?
I once has a friend who was bipolar suddenly turn incredibly hostile and angry with me.
They insisted “I knew what i had done” but i still wonder what they could possibly have meant with it, i recalled the last communication before that being a mundane but friendly chat. I could not talk to them, they became actually violent.
None of our mutual friends knew what was up, or managed to learn what it is “that i did”.
Now it wouldn’t be uncharacteristic for them to create some strange theories of people they knew being involved with a secret templar society and actively keeping them in the dark, but i don’t know if this was connected to it and i never found a way to talk to them again after that.