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Finding people who vibe with you is so hard
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My best advice for finding a partner is to first find a best friend that evolves into a partner.
that's not how sex works though. people dont' want to be friends with people they want to fuck, and they dont' want to fuck people they are friends with.
and a romantic relationship requires the desire to fuck. so that's why people focus on that first and foremost.
Many people marry for different reasons. To each their own. In my eyes, I married for my forever partner. Beauty fades and I want more than a bang. I want someone who's brain will be my partner more than their body.
The "make friends first" method works for me for this. Yes I want to have sex but I don't want my intimacy to be wasted.