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this post was submitted on 11 Dec 2025
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I am realizing my life is not really marked by birthdays, anniversaries, promotions, or any of the normal milestone stuff people list. It is marked by video games.
Thanks for this thread, because it reminded me of one I cannot leave out.
There was a week I spent in a mental hospital with a major anxiety spiral. Pretty much everything felt unmanageable. The one thing I could handle was Pokémon FireRed on a Game Boy Advance.
That was it. That was my anchor.
It was actually written into my chart that I was allowed to plug my charger in at the nurses station while I slept so the GBA would be ready the next day. No arguments. No debates. Just accepted as necessary.
Not my oldest game, see my other replies for that, but it is probably the only one I have mentioned that might have saved my life.
It's funny what a few dots on a screen, some words, and lo fi music can do for a person. I think sometimes we live in such a messed up world that we need something simple to anchor us.
Keep swimming man