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[-] RagingNerdoholic@lemmy.ca 53 points 2 years ago

Are zoomers really like this?

[-] Ataraxia@lemm.ee 28 points 2 years ago

I'm 40. I don't even answer the phone if it rings. If it's important they can leave a message.

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[-] SkyeStarfall@lemmy.blahaj.zone 24 points 2 years ago

Sorry if I don't think minor topics are worthy of the immediate attention needed for a phone call?

Phone calls are reserved for emergencies. Otherwise you're just demanding the instant attention of someone for nothing.

[-] JackOfAllTraits@lemmy.world 33 points 2 years ago

Not demanding, asking. Declining a call is always an option.

[-] magikmw@lemm.ee 14 points 2 years ago

I like to compare calling to someone knocking on your door incessantly for several seconds.

You can ignore it or decline to answer. It's still annoying af.

[-] SkyeStarfall@lemmy.blahaj.zone 6 points 2 years ago

So why call in the first place? And how will I ever know what the call was about? Unless you text, of course, so why not just do that in the first place?

You may not intent for it to be a demand, but unless you have your phone on silent, it will keep ringing and making noise until you do something about it. It demands an action, and tries to get your attention as much as possible.

Which is why it's designated to emergencies. This makes calling more useful as well, because now you know calls are more important, and can actually treat them with more urgency. Otherwise you're just gonna end up ignoring what may be an actual emergency, because you treat every phone call the same.

[-] Spendrill@lemm.ee 5 points 2 years ago

Gen X here, only had a smartphone 5 years as before I was avoiding it. Typing is painful. Just answer the phone and we'll get that query sorted in less time than I would take to type the initial question. Don't be a big baby about it.

[-] SnowdenHeroOfOurTime@unilem.org 8 points 2 years ago

Millennial here and totally agree. There are times I don't feel like talking and I simply don't answer. How hard is it to answer normally though? If it's not during work hours... If I'm busy I just call back. No idea why this is a weird awkward thing for so many

[-] Jakeroxs@sh.itjust.works 6 points 2 years ago

Did you know, as with most things, typing on a phone is a skill that improves with use. Get with the times, don't be a big baby about it

[-] electrogamerman@lemmy.world 5 points 2 years ago

Why is humanity like this? Can we just agree that different people like to do different things?

[-] Jakeroxs@sh.itjust.works 2 points 2 years ago

Fair, I got a little triggered lol

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[-] xePBMg9@lemmynsfw.com 4 points 2 years ago

If it was not important enough to type it out, you can tell me next time we meet. I'll stop answering your call after the second nonsense call you make.

[-] SnowdenHeroOfOurTime@unilem.org 2 points 2 years ago

Such a sense of entitlement. You're not royalty.

[-] Rodeo@lemmy.ca 2 points 2 years ago

Nor are you entitled to anyone else's time or attention.

[-] SnowdenHeroOfOurTime@unilem.org 1 points 2 years ago

I never said if someone doesn't answer they're an asshole. Unlike what you're saying about incoming phone calls.

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[-] SRo@lemmy.sdf.org 3 points 2 years ago

You have a psychological problem. You in therapy I hope?

[-] SkyeStarfall@lemmy.blahaj.zone 3 points 2 years ago

Can you elaborate on why you think this is a psychological problem?

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[-] cubedsteaks@lemmy.today 1 points 2 years ago

lol exactly why my phone is on silent

[-] aidan@lemmy.world 3 points 2 years ago

When you decline a call you don't know what it's about. The only thing I can think of when I family member calls and I decline a call is that they needed desperate help/were in an emergency and I just hung up on them.

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[-] SnowdenHeroOfOurTime@unilem.org 17 points 2 years ago* (last edited 2 years ago)

Phone calls aren't reserved for anything. They're just phone calls. I'm a huge introvert but it's like in one particular way millions of people decided to try and be the most annoying introvert possible

[-] mercury@lemmy.blahaj.zone 16 points 2 years ago

I don't think all zoomers are, but a LOT of the people I know are TERRIFIED of phone calls. I was like that too, before I started applying for jobs and had to make like 3 calls a week.

[-] cubedsteaks@lemmy.today 9 points 2 years ago

Yeah, I'm a millennial and use to have terrible phone anxiety. It prevented me from being able to get a job for a long time. I would always try to go in person instead because it was less anxiety inducing but never got a job that way.

[-] Shave_MyBeever@lemmy.world 9 points 2 years ago

Gen-x'r here who doesn't even have the phone app on my home screen.

Fuck phone calls!

[-] uis@lemmy.world 6 points 2 years ago

That's about outgoing calls. Incoming calls still will be fullscreen pop-ups

[-] Psythik@lemm.ee 3 points 2 years ago

It's more of a Millenial thing. I'm 35 and I don't pick up the phone ever unless it's an emergency or a job interview.

[-] RagingNerdoholic@lemmy.ca 17 points 2 years ago

I'm 36 and if you want to call me, then fine? Who cares? I don't get why it's such a big deal.

[-] SnowdenHeroOfOurTime@unilem.org 9 points 2 years ago

It absolutely is not a big deal, this thread is bonkers

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[-] HughJanus@lemmy.ml 7 points 2 years ago

How do you know it's an emergency if you don't pick up the phone

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[-] socsa@lemmy.ml 2 points 2 years ago

Also almost 40. Fuck synchronous communications. Inferior in every possible way.

[-] SnowdenHeroOfOurTime@unilem.org 3 points 2 years ago

How can you even say that? If that's how you live, no doubt this philosophy causes you issues at least once a week. You'd rather know that [insert major life event] happened...later... and instead of finding out immediately and confirming it/responding to it, you can try to call them later only for it now to be a hassle because they're not answering, and the only email you have goes to some dumbass ai bot. Yeah so much more convenient than picking up a phone on occasion, when it's important

[-] Rodeo@lemmy.ca 2 points 2 years ago

Or the exact same thing happens and you can't even get a response to them because you're relying on a synchronous mode of communication which requires both parties to be engaged at the same time ....

Or you could just send them a message and they'll see it when they look.

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