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I got in a political argument with some clown on Facebook. He managed to retrieve my wife's cell phone number and our home phone which is unlisted and technically just provided by our Internet company that we never use.

None our personal info is really available on Facebook and our profiles are pretty locked down, but he called my wife's phone a few times last week which she has blocked and never answers. Comes up as anonymous on her id.

He tried our home phone 16 times which I ignored, everything stopped, he called again tonight. I decided to answer. He said he knows where I live my wife and daughters name, and our address. He never gave out that though and that he is coming to kill us. Said that on the line

I have called my local police department. But this is rural Nebraska they said they can't do anything or have our phone companies run a trace.

Is there anything I can do to figure out who this guy is?

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[-] bdama@lemmy.blahaj.zone 59 points 1 day ago

Please do not buy Ring cameras, Amazons vast surveillance network is a privacy nightmare and is also regularly accessed by ICE and other law enforcement.

Eufy cameras can be used with a home base and stay offline, recording to the SD card in the base. Or if you're into it, there are many self hosting options that give you much more control and options.

[-] MonkeMischief@lemmy.today 28 points 1 day ago

This. This. A thousand times a thousand times, yes. Nobody should be blindly trusting their safety to Amazon, one of the worst abusers of trust and privacy.

(Plus they're the most common hardware... Guess what's getting targeted for mass exploits?)

Almost anything is better than giving Amazon access to your home.

[-] innermachine@lemmy.world 1 points 1 day ago

The only thing worse than giving info to Amazon, is having no security for your home. I have a ring camera that was a gift from my previous employer when I moved states and I'm very glad to have it. It faces my street, where anybody can see anyways so privacy is not a concern. I'd never put ring cameras inside or in the rear of my house, and would rather not use ring but given what a life saver it has been since i bought my house several times, i will not be doin without until I can replace with a offline system. But being able to check in at work is nice, and any security is better than no security. Hell just bolting an old cctv camera to the side of your house without hooking it up is better than nothing.

[-] Tinidril@midwest.social 3 points 17 hours ago

That ring camera is still absolutely a privacy threat, if not to you, than to your neighbors. Ring is partnering with flock on mass surveillance with facial recognition. That camera belongs to ICE just as much as it belongs to you, if not more since they can have AI "watch" it 24x7.

[-] teawrecks@sopuli.xyz 4 points 1 day ago

Eufy doesn't have a good track record for keeping things local or secure, despite claiming they are, btw. Source

[-] bdama@lemmy.blahaj.zone 1 points 10 hours ago

That's good to know, thanks

[-] fizzle@quokk.au 4 points 1 day ago

Fair. I have a frigate set up myself, I just said the first thing that came to mind.

[-] ripcord@lemmy.world 2 points 1 day ago

One day i will replace Echos with something better (still waiting for the Home Assistant devices to catch up). Until then, what doorbell camera A) has a battery option (rewiring isn't currently an option) and B) will trigger Echo chimes when rung (really really handy when on the back porch or basement), C) are end-to-end encrypted (Eufys are NOT) without the manufacturer able to access the stream.when they choose

[-] bandwidthcrisis@lemmy.world 1 points 1 day ago

Just having driveway alarms can be useful. Battery motion sensors trigger a chime on the base unit. Enough to give you an alert that something needs to be checked.

[-] bdama@lemmy.blahaj.zone 1 points 1 day ago

I'm sure you can find this information in selfosted or other more tech oriented communities. Usually the convenience comes at the cost of privacy. It's up to you if you want to keep the microphones in your home to turn off the lights and set timers. I used to trust Apple more and had HomePods installed, but everything has been sold on and I bought egg timers for very cheap that work just as well. (Granted Siri was never very capable..)

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