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submitted 1 day ago by voytek709@lemmy.ca to c/asklemmy@lemmy.ml

So I saw a post on this girl having trouble with her bf and it reminded me of me. I (19NB) am having trouble with my girlfriend Nichole (18F). I dated her a while ago but had trouble with my ex who I still thought about I believe, so I stopped liking her. Now we are together but with problems because apparently I’m in the wrong for wanting to call my best friend and see what he’s up to

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[-] disregardable@lemmy.zip 13 points 1 day ago

You weren't great. She brought an issue to you and instead of resolving it or offering any solution, you told her to stop talking about it and act happy like she did before. But you know, ultimately she is going to have to figure out that some people won't be there for her the way she wants, and the only solution to that is to look for the right person.

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