The Vanishing Men of Vancouver Island (www.dismantlethemedia.ca)

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We are finally talking about this now eh? I lost a cousin over 12 years ago, vanished into thin air. Nobody cared. Especially the RCMP. Much like all these guys. A few posters and a lazy facebook post was all my beloved cousin ever got.

My favourite part of the article is this:

National statistics reflect a severe and often overlooked reality regarding violence against Indigenous men:

Between 1980 and 2012, Statistics Canada documented 1,750 Indigenous male homicide victims, compared to 745 Indigenous female homicide victims.

In this timeframe, 71% of all murdered and missing Indigenous people were men and boys.

According to 2020 Statistics Canada data, Indigenous men are seven times more likely to die by homicide than non-Indigenous people, and four times more likely than Indigenous women.

We hear so much about missing indigenous women. I had no idea the stat for men was 4 times higher. Why doesn't anyone care?

There is almost certainly an active serial killer operating on the mid island for years now, and I hear random people saying this more and more. Sadly we are on our own over here it seems.

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[+] rekabis@lemmy.ca -11 points 18 hours ago* (last edited 18 hours ago)

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[-] Ioughttamow@fedia.io 14 points 18 hours ago

Fuck right off, misogynist, can’t even acknowledge the boot comes from above, no, got to “other” women instead

[-] classic@fedia.io 7 points 17 hours ago

Yep. "Society" is not particularly known for its treatment of women, either. It's "watch out mate, he's after your cookie" over and over again

[-] rekabis@lemmy.ca -4 points 15 hours ago* (last edited 5 hours ago)

Fuck right off, misogynist, can’t even acknowledge the boot comes from above, no, got to “other” women instead

Men are the vast majority under that boot. Read the f**king article, ya dingus.

Across Canada, the number of missing and murdered Aboriginal men is almost 5× that of aboriginal women. And yet, where are the nation-wide initiatives to solve aboriginal men’s murders and disappearances?

Suicides of men are over 5× that of women. Yet where is the pearl-clutching over those deaths?

Homelessness is almost ¾ men. And yet, homeless shelters for only women outnumber those for only men, and men’s shelters frequently have to empty out completely if there is any overflow from women’s shelters at all.

Workplace deaths of men are more than 9× that of women. And headlines only occur when it is women who suffer.

Plus, of all the jobs that aren’t at parity between men and women, the only ones women ever clamour to target are those with air conditioning and great lumbar support. Where are all the female lumberjacks? Where are the female crabbers? The coal miners and oil rig workers and the framers and plumbers and roofers?

crickets

Yyyyyup. Thought so.

You look at pretty much any personal calamity except those which are purely gender-specific, and if men aren’t neck-and-neck with women, they’re nearly always the majority of victims.

And yet, it is only those solutions that address women which are not “misogynistic”. Hell, it took nearly 40 years for “men’s mental health month” to gain traction against exactly those accusations of misogyny.

So fuck right off back, you flaming gender bigot.

[-] BigJohnnyHines@lemmy.ca 4 points 10 hours ago* (last edited 10 hours ago)

No women are against men getting help. Feminism offers a framework that explains many of the problems you keep dancing around. Unfortunately, you don’t actually read any of it and instead get your worldview from incel memes and social media. You don’t care about men getting help as much as you care about creating weird wedge issues where if someone gets help it must be taking away from yourself.

[-] FluorideMind@lemmy.world 13 points 18 hours ago

Hate likes to coop terms to hide that it's hate. Feminism ≠ misandry.

[-] idiomaddict@lemmy.world 8 points 17 hours ago

You are fueling the gender war.

[-] minorkeys@lemmy.world 0 points 12 hours ago

Only women get to do that?

[-] rekabis@lemmy.ca -3 points 15 hours ago

You are fueling the gender war.

So true equality is “fuelling the gender war”, eh?

Why call feminism “equality”, then, if it is nothing of the sort?

[-] idiomaddict@lemmy.world 8 points 11 hours ago

Suggesting that men are betraying themselves by supporting feminism is fueling the gender war.

*Getting rid of gender related bias in mental healthcare is feminist.

*Removing gender-based barriers to all careers is feminist.

*Paternal leave policies are feminist.

*Government provision of comprehensive and inexpensive childcare services is feminist.

These policies directly support and help men. They improve men’s lives. Men should support them, if their goal is to increase opportunities, autonomy, and improve quality of life for other men. Other feminist policies seek to bring women’s opportunities, autonomy, and quality of life up to par with those of men, which indirectly helps men, as it helps the women around them be more capable, self-sufficient, and better community members.

Suggesting otherwise propagates an imaginary point of tension and stirs up distrust of women in young men. In other words, it fuels the gender war.