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My wife says if we invite our friends and their 3 year olds to my childs birthday at a restaurant that its customary to pay for everyone. Is this reasonable?

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[-] BarHocker@discuss.tchncs.de 34 points 3 days ago

If you invite, then yes.

However, customs don't need to be followed. I would just communicate that you don't intend to pay so that there is no false expectations.

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