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i'm saying your example is wrong. it does not automatically assume when you're a transman you're going to be a man who hooks up with man. you're just reading your own preferences into it because that's what you're looking for
what is the word for ftm who hook up with women then? is heterosexuality that terrifying to you? or do they not exist like bi men and intersex folk
what
Apparently according to eldavi if you're ftm you have to love dick, not pussy.
edit: i realized just now that i could be misinterpreting eldavi but that would be admitting trans exclusionism and fuck that.
I understand where you're coming from but lots of us queer folks don't think of attraction in terms of genitals, and eldavi didn't say you had to like particular genitals either. Back to your original point, transbians don't only date other transbians, many date cisbians. Trans people who only date trans people use the label t4t.
So, there is not a cool word for gay Trans men. But y'all want to infodump at me so I miss that fact. Got it.