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How can I wear a skirt at work if I'm not religious?
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Likely, since you didn't mention it, you don't want your gender to be an issue. That's not the world we live in. If you present as male and want to wear a skirt, the only possible option at bigger corporations is a kilt, but then you'll need to lean into being "Scottish". You might find more acceptance at a small business, even a smaller bank, perhaps, depending on where you are.
If you present as female, then I don't know what to say, I've never heard of a job that requires trousers for women apart from for safety reasons.
I present male and I wear skirts to work. The boss said the dress code was black trousers and I said I don't wear pants. Never been an issue
That said, it's totally nerve-wracking to make that stand. If an employer refuses on anything other than a safety concern then it's just bigotry, straight up.
Don't work for bigots - which can be a difficult stance to take when you don't know how you're going to make rent. People don't deserve to be put in this position, but as you say it's the world we live in
I salute you o7, the era of men in skirts is long overdue for a comeback.
Modern kilts tune down the Scottishness. It can basically be a skirt. A manly man's skirt, with pockets.
Example: https://21stcenturykilts.com/kilts
There is no technical reason a man can’t wear a skirt. The society you live in may “frown” upon it. But that’s a different issue to address entirely
Don't forget the sarong as another male alternative. Flipping great in the weather it developed in.