Specifically the younger ones here and the ones who don't have any kids. So my mom couldn't care less, but my dad really wants me to have a kid and says things like that I'll have a man if I do this, or a man if I look a certain way. Here's the thing: he knows I have a fiancée but I haven't told him about my boyfriend because IDK how he feels about the whole poly thing. He doesn't seem to care but he'd rather I got married/engaged to a man.

Also, he constantly talks about how I would be the perfect mother and such and he would love biological grandkids, but I can't really have biological grandkids because both of my partners are female at birth. I don't really want kids anyway as I don't wanna go through the aspect of getting pregnant. He's nonbinary, so I'm still a lesbian and he says I can be due to that and part of the reason I only date women and enbies is, besides not really wanting to date a man, is that I've talked to men before and several of them wanted to get me pregnant, didn't respect my wishes, and once I was bisexual as a teenager, they ignored and tried to erase my identity and acted like I was a straight girl only capable of falling in love with him.

Now I won't say all men are like this, because they're not, but this has been my experience.

Sorry for ranting so much but ughhhhh