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Hello, I would like to say a few words at my mom's funeral service. I did not do so at my dads funeral because I did not think I could even make it through my first sentence before becoming a puddle on the floor. For those of you who had to do this, was it easier than you thought, or are there any tricks to try and hold it together? I am wondering if once I get up there, instinct will kick in and it won't be a problem. Sorry if I don't reply to what you have to say, but I will read all advice and am appreciative of it.

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[-] Outdated4134@piefed.zip 41 points 2 days ago

Funeral director here, even if you do turn into a puddle everyone understands. Just do the best you can and it will be fine.

[-] racketlauncher831@lemmy.ml 6 points 1 day ago

I think this is correct. Crying is normal behaviour on a funeral. Don't expect those scenes in films where you speak fluently with confidence.

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