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submitted 13 hours ago by Klarinette245@feddit.org to c/asklemmy@lemmy.ml

I ask as a butch lesbian (enby) myself. In Swedish, we have: truckflata or butchflata.

I suck at all 3 languages, but for femme I've just seen femmeflata.

I think it's just Butch and Femme in German, but I'm still kinda learning that.

Lesbians in German is lesben and in Swedish, it's "lesbiska" or "flator".

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apparently referring to them wearing manly working clothes, like ones farmers/tractor riders would wear maybe?

oops. just realized it;'s apparently an insult

[-] uKale@lemmy.world 3 points 8 hours ago

Some people use it proudly about themselves, but if somebody who doesn't love and respect you use it about you, it can be an insult.

ohhhh ok, i get it now

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