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this post was submitted on 22 Aug 2023
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Ah, man, this hurts a lot. It appears that you were keen in helping her with whatever kind of problems, personal or business, but she wasn't in a reciprocal place.
Sometimes after a failed confession, the reality of course doesn't match your expectation. I just ask myself that if it's someone else, what I would expect from them in the response of friends helping each other out. She might truly be using you, or anyone who fell into her trap.
I'm not saying she's an abusive woman but those definitely exist. Glad you made your way out.