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What's a thought pattern that's way too common and damaging to society?

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[-] dfyx@lemmy.helios42.de 35 points 1 week ago* (last edited 1 week ago)

"I don't like it so it must be bad" in relation to all kinds of media. So many people can't accept that something just isn't meant for them. There are literally thousands of games, movies and albums getting released every year so if you don't like something, just don't buy it and move on instead of complaining to (and sometimes about) those of us who are looking forward to it.

Edit: this might not strictly be the most toxic behavior but it makes social interactions super annoying, even in small groups and it seems to coincide with people who are overall fond of forcing their personal views and beliefs on others.

[-] jtrek@startrek.website 4 points 1 week ago

I think a lot about how "good" and "fun" are two different things.

You can have a game that's a fascinating exploration of a theme that really unifies mechanics and story, but is an absolute downer of misery to play.

You can also have a game that's a glorified slot machine with bugs, no real player input, and abusive monetization, but people's brains light up playing it.

There's some subjectivity of course, but sometimes I see games that are good at what they're trying to be, but I don't have any fun with them. Some people seem to demand those overlap all the time.

[-] dfyx@lemmy.helios42.de 3 points 6 days ago

I would say that‘s an entirely different point. If someone likes to literally watch paint dry, who am I to invade their discussions tell them they shouldn’t? Let people like what they like even if you personally think it’s neither good nor fun.

[-] jtrek@startrek.website 4 points 6 days ago

What I was trying to get at is something can be worthwhile even if you don't personally enjoy it.

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