I'm genuinely sorry for misgendering you and for bringing race into it. It's not that people aren't reacting positively to my critique. I don't care about that. It's the other person talking down to me like I'm a fool or a child and he's in some formal debate that he has to "win." The last thing I need are other people inserting their opinions into the mix about how I should speak politely to that person when he was being such a cock.

And what I meant by "cis white male energy" is people feel the need to tell you their opinion, to the point that multiple people are dogpiling you telling you the same thing, none of which ever addresses the real issue.