Yeah thats about where i stand about it. For me its that I know plenty of people with kinks and fantasies that dont match their actual ideology about the world. Commited leftists don't often talk about their kinks and fantasies (especially on here because of volcel jokes) but a lot of the ones I've spoken to privately are into weird shit that if exposed to a wider leftist audience would probably be criticized but like, they're totally comitted and principled leftists so?

Though I definitely get being suspicious of anyone who openly wants slave harems.