the fediverse has this reputation of being unfriendly which push (sic) newcomers away

What I was doing was being generous. I'm not going to shed any tears if people who spend all day on Facebook and Instagram think the fediverse is too hard to figure out and too unfriendly. Barriers to entry are a good thing when you have barbarians at the gate. That mostly means the drooling masses from corporate social media who ruin everything they touch, but it also means le epic wholesome keanu chungus morons from reddit and beard-stroking corporatist pontificators from slashdot and hacker news. The dweeb I was responding to is from the latter camp, and I really don't feel any obligation to help make the fediverse into a place where people like him can expect a positive reception for pinching off loafs like his opinion.