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Who the fuck is financially prepared for having children?
As a father of two, I sure as shit wasn't.
We were. We started a bit later than average though. I regret that, tbh.
I wasn't expecting child care to be quite so expensive, but the tax refunds in the first few years were helpful.
Well, when your rent is 50% of your income and your food costs take up almost 30% of your income and your bills take up the remainder and you're constantly one missed paycheck from homelessness and starvation and your family are in equally dire straits and so cannot bail you out - having children becomes entirely impossible.
You say you weren't financially prepared, but evidently it was financially possible for you to have children. For at least half of my generation it just point blank is not possible.
I was. Millennial father of two.