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Would a federated dating site work well? What would it look like?
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I think people need to go outside and interact with each other in person. That's the best way to date.
It's true. At 28 I'd been dateless for 10 years, doing the sad neckbeard incel thing. One day a friend of a friend received two free tickets to a speed dating event. He didn't want to go, but he said he would go if someone else went with him for moral support. In a very out-of-character move for me, I volunteered and went along with him. It was the first time in over 5 years I'd been to a bar. We did 5 minute dates with 15 different women. It was the most women I've spoken to in one night in my whole life. There was only one candidate I connected with, I submitted her as a match. The next day I got an email saying that she had matched with me too! I got her email, and chatted via email for about 6 weeks, then organised to go on a real date. The rest is history from there, we're coming up to our 10th wedding anniversary.
So yes, going outside, interacting with people, it works. Its not a trick guys.
That's not "going outside", that's going to IRL tinder
How do you think he got there? Tunnels?
The people I'm interested in dating would pay to step into a human sized microwave before going outside.
Do they think that will prevent COVID?
the true federated dating app, touching grass