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This might sound like a question inspired by current events, but I've actually been thinking of this for a while and can give pointers to a few times I had asked this or talked about it.

The people who the masses look up to seem to have a strange way of dishing out their opinions/approval/disapproval of the groups of the world. Some groups can get away with being considered good no matter how negative their actions are while other groups are stuck with a high disapproval rating no matter how much good they might do, and a discussion on whether "culture" or a "cult" is involved almost always comes up.

An example of this is the relationship between Islam and Scientology, in fact this is the most infamous one I can link to having spoken about. People on a certain side of the thinktank spectrum (the same side Lemmy seems to lean towards at times) are quick to criticize Scientology even though they consider "classic Islamic philosophy", for a lack of a better way to put it without generalizing, as not inspiring a call for critique to see how one may change it. And I've always wondered, why? One at times leads people to trying to exterminate innocent groups, the other one is just "Space Gnosticism" that has a few toxic aspects but hasn't actually eliminated anyone. Of course, I'm not defending either one, but certainly I'd rather live in a stressful environment than one that actively targets me.

This question has been asked a few times, sometimes without me but sometimes when I'm around to be involved, and they always say (and it's in my dumb voice that I quote them) "well Scientology is a cult, of course we can criticize them" and then a bit about how whatever other thing is being talked about is a part of culture. This doesn't sit well with my way of thinking. I was taught to judge people by the content of their character, in other words their virtues, so in my mind, a good X is better than a bad Y, in this case a good cult should be better than a good culture, right? Right?

In fact, as what many might call a mild misanthrope, I'd flip it around and point out how, over the course of human history, alongside seemingly objectively questionable quirks people just brush off (like Japan for a while has been genociding dolphins for their meat value just above extinction "because it's culture" or how there are people in China who still think dinosaur bones are a form of medicine waiting to be ground up), no group/culture has kept their innocence intact, every country having had genocides or unnecessary wars or something of the like, things they ALLOW to happen by design. Then they turn around and tell so-called "cults", even the ones that have their priorities on straight compared to cultures, that they are pariahs and shouldn't count on thriving, even though their status is one that doesn't necessitate gaining any kind of guilt. I was a pariah growing up, almost everyone else revolved around a select few people that seemed in-tune to the culture, and they would say anyone who revolved around people outside the group (me for example) was "following a cult", and this hurt at the time, but now seeing all the wars going on right now, I might consider this a compliment.

My question, even though it by definition might make affirming answerers question whether they are pariahs or a part of the cultural arena, is why does nobody agree? Why are cultures "always precious" while cults are "always suspicious"?

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[-] Maoo@hexbear.net 12 points 1 year ago

Cults exercise very direct and personal control from the deified leadership to the followers. It tends to mean abuse between central leadership and the followers. Cult practices have similarities to religions and draw from religious and spiritual claims (and can become religions), but are distinguished by certain patterns of how they control members:

  • Isolate from those around you, especially family and friends that don't agree with what you're doing.

  • Recruit others to the cult.

  • Demonstrate value to the cult through humiliation and serving the petty needs of the leader. The petty needs will be described as being much more important than they really are.

  • Harsh punishment and violence for stepping out of line.

  • A culture of blaming followers for their sins, including things for which they are not in any way responsible or at fault.

  • A hierarchy of power that is mostly about who gets to mete out abuse.

  • A specialized set of terminology for common things so that they become an in-reference that offers will not understand.

  • Isolation of "troublemakers" or people that fight back. Keeping them separate from one another.

The small size of the cult makes these things have a qualitatively different impact when it comes to social control. It's not about some established mysticism or conservatism that you carry out some action or feel some guilt, it's a distinct practice where every person around you forces conformity based on the whims of a very personal power structure and just a couple people who get to decide everything, and you usually live with them.

Anyways, the main issue with Westerners criticizing Islam or Muslims is that the discourse is absolutely saturated with racism and Western chauvinism that is just a more veiled version of what white supremacists say. It's not particularly informed and, as part of the dominant hegemonic mindset of the oppressor class and oppressor nations, it gladly ignores that the most extreme, voluminous, and unnecessary violence is carried out by the power structures they implicitly or explicitly support, secular or not.

Some Western criticisms of Islam tend to present themselves as academic or at least thoughtful and informed examinations of theology and cultural practices. Sometimes they even take a critical look at other religions and cultural practices. But they very often lead to lazy and bigoted policy and advocacy positions because it's less about understanding in order to improve the world and more about identifying an enemy and it turns out that the global movers and shakers would absolutely love to use those "principled" stances to justify the domination and destruction of entire countries and peoples with your consent.

You'll notice that Sam Harris has become a full-blown islamophobe and neocon. He is not improving the world through knowledge or action, but justifying oppression by the global hegemonic powers that want to pillage for profit by playing on stereotypical racist fears. He's also gone down the self-help grifter path. He's really just laundering reactionary views through a distinct language of "skepticism", views that would fit right in at a "race science" consortium in 1912 and a bloodthirsty US State Department meeting on how to justify the genocide of brown people in the Middle East.

[-] shinigamiookamiryuu@lemm.ee 1 points 1 year ago

I'm not someone who has mastered the information/misinformation part, but I do know it's not lying to say that, if I was over in that part of the world where Islam thrives, I would be killed or put into a lower class for things such as gender and maybe even my national background if it was years ago (so a defense criticism argument could be made), and I also know it's not lying to say those people are trying to come to where I live and "change" us. It's definitely not their race/ethnicity I'm critical of.

My first reaction when some people identify as "a cultural Muslim" (as peaceful as they are; I'm not trying to imply they should all be put in one basket) is therefore to think "aww shit, there's a whole piece of the fabric of the world (i.e. a culture) out there that has their vigilance set against my existence". Then I think of cults (which I visualize as outside the fabric, that playing into the definition embedded in my question) and how (comparatively) accepting they might be, and I think "wait, why exactly is the classification supposed to mean anything again?"

[-] Maoo@hexbear.net 2 points 1 year ago

What is the relevance of what you think would happen to you in an Islamic country? I'd also point out that Islam is not a monolith and Muslims are not a monolith, despite your implications, so which Islamic countries are you thinking of? Are you sure you didn't have a particular idea in mind when you conflated "islamic country" with the scenario you are thinking of? What do the people there look like? What do they believe? What would they do to you?

Where is "here"? Why are "they" going to where you are? Almost certainly, uou will find that the point of xenophobia is to distract you from what was done in your name to the people forced to immigrate to your area. To excuse the much greater violence and turn your fears and frustrations against a population that you and your culture stripped of their homes and safety - and then justifies through dehumanization and a focus on Islam as the problem.

You will indeed find some immigrants that are reactionary. Imagine a world in which social developments could occur within countries through legitimate struggles rather than forcing deprivation and murder on people from different cultures and then whinging about how they don't think how you do.

In short, you're doing the exact problematic thing that Sam Harris serves a function for. You're identifying an enemy to fear and degrade and it's blinding you to the much greater dangers and violences that are directly involved but where blame lies in your country and your culture. Centuries of colonialism premised on ethnic cleansing and extraction, now neocolonialism doing the same. Go look at where Wahhabism and the other forms of Islam you are scared of came from. They are recent inventions arising from occupations, not intrinsic aspects of Islam.

And review the reactionary aspects of your own culture, as you are fearing hypothetical harms by people coming from countries that your country and culture actively participates in destroying. The only question would be whether that country is a very active player in imperialism or a hanger-on.

[-] shinigamiookamiryuu@lemm.ee 1 points 1 year ago

Hence the way I phrased it when I said "classic Islamic philosophy" and then clarified it wasn't going to be my intention to generalize. Literally in my wording.

I'm well aware of my own culture's faults and not using this as a distraction to that, in fact that's the very point of this, to ask why "cults", which one could (and they have called them these) call "pseudocultures" or "quasicultures" or "paracultures", are seen as wrong while "actual" cultures are protected by the view that relativism is supposed to tolerate cultures "just because" they're cultures. Not that you actually know what my culture is just by reading what I'm saying right now.

I used the umbrella of Islam as an example, partially because of current events, but it's by no means the only one and I wasn't trying to imply this; I mentioned more groups down below, in reply to other people. The thought process behind the question is there are "wannabe cultures" that haven't done anything wrong, yet which get criticized, but here we ("we" as in onlookers of current events) are wondering what kind of cultures would be better in the place of the destructive ones, and so I think "what about these 'wannabe cultures' that have done nothing wrong or have done comparatively little wrong".

To answer the other question, I am an LGBT woman with interracial ancestry with a highly frustrating medical condition and what one might call a spiritual tradition that would come off as iconoclastic in any part of the world, but especially in the nations closest to the middle of Eurasia. To use a metaphor, seeing that an immovable piece of the world, in this case a world culture, would kill me on sight makes me feel as if Earth's immune system sees me as a bad cell. So naturally I wonder, one, does it really have to be this way, and two, would a "cult" as I mention be more worthy to exist as its very own "culture" than one that decided it wanted people like me gone first, even though there will always be people like me (meaning they too are against something immovable in the world)?

[-] Maoo@hexbear.net 2 points 1 year ago

I invite you to answer the questions I asked and consider much greater violences at hand. I didn't make you cite Sam Harris or conflate Islamic countries or buy into right wing xenophobic fear narratives, but I did respond to them.

[-] shinigamiookamiryuu@lemm.ee 1 points 1 year ago

Then it's a good thing I didn't do any of that, now isn't it?

For every question you say hasn't been answered, I can point to (or quote) a part of what I said that does exactly that.

[-] Maoo@hexbear.net 2 points 1 year ago

You did all of the things I listed and ignored most of my questions. If you honestly believe otherwise, I invite you to revisit what was said and asked and ask yourself whether you acknowledged it at all, let alone actually addressed what was said.

Though I'm not stupid, I know what defensive behavior and fibbing looks like by someone that is uncomfortable. I'm not going to be polite if you try this again.

[-] shinigamiookamiryuu@lemm.ee 1 points 1 year ago

Suppose for a moment I sincerely believe I addressed everything (and I do). Saying out of disagreement "review it yourself" would thus be a request I cannot humor, that's why I invited you to give examples. I also don't know who this Sam Harris guy is, so I'm not sure why you say I cited him, but I even did a CTRL+F trick to make sure. I still don't see it.

[-] Maoo@hexbear.net 2 points 1 year ago

Suppose for a moment I sincerely believe I addressed everything (and I do). Saying out of disagreement "review it yourself" would thus be a request I cannot humor,

Oh, so you are incapable of listening to others and doubting yourself when they disagree with you? Yes, I agree, that's the real issue here.

Anyways maybe you'll drop this dishonest pretense if I point out that my first paragraph was nearly all questions you did not answer:

"What is the relevance of what you think would happen to you in an Islamic country? I'd also point out that Islam is not a monolith and Muslims are not a monolith, despite your implications, so which Islamic countries are you thinking of? Are you sure you didn't have a particular idea in mind when you conflated "islamic country" with the scenario you are thinking of? What do the people there look like? What do they believe? What would they do to you?"

At most you said it was not your intention to generalize, but (1) that still doesn't answer my questions and (2) yes you absolutely did that repeatedly, it's literally the premise of your post and these replies. You are, of course, aware of this, you're just handling contradiction poorly.

If you'd like a tip: you always have the option of just not responding. It's a lot better than what you've been doing.

that's why I invited you to give examples.

You didn't ask for examples lol

I also don't know who this Sam Harris guy is, so I'm not sure why you say I cited him, but I even did a CTRL+F trick to make sure. I still don't see it.

You cited his subreddit and your poorly-veiled, cagey focus is drawn from the islamophobia he pushes out. Maybe you're so confused that you don't even know where you picked up this garbage, but as I explained in my original response, that's where these grifters come from.

Be better.

[-] shinigamiookamiryuu@lemm.ee 1 points 1 year ago

Oh, so you are incapable of listening to others and doubting yourself when they disagree with you? Yes, I agree, that’s the real issue here.

The comment you're replying to with that statement implies I thought I addressed everything, and when you objected to that, I asked if you could point to where you believe I hadn't. That's not the same as not listening. If it's dishonest to ask someone to give examples, I would doubt you think anyone on this thread is honest.

I do maintain I answered the questions, but I will paraphrase my answers, piece by piece.

What is the relevance of what you think would happen to you in an Islamic country?

The relevance is in the character. People see "true" cults with negative connotations. But if we were comparing said "cults" with groups that are part and parcel with the global community, they have a better human rights track record than some of the latter. The first group that would come to mind in this context is Islam. People in those countries (and you can say I'm generalizing, but whether "all" such countries do it isn't the point, it's that cults have a better track record) still execute/imprison people based on gender, sexual orientation, religion, ethnicity, and sometimes politics and medical conditions. People will argue cults are accepting of people for the wrong reasons, but it's still better than mistreatment.

I’d also point out that Islam is not a monolith and Muslims are not a monolith, despite your implications, so which Islamic countries are you thinking of?

I didn't list them all, but I did give an area, and I did imply Palestine as it falls under the umbrella of current events. I don't have an exact visual map of all Islamic countries, but my point didn't require it, it does not need to specify which countries whether or not it claims all the countries over there are susceptible to it (and it doesn't), because it pertains to the cultures and the groups harbored by them. The point, again, is that cults have a better track record than those groups.

Are you sure you didn’t have a particular idea in mind when you conflated “islamic country” with the scenario you are thinking of?

See my paragraph above.

What do the people there look like?

Nothing in particular. That was never a factor in what I was implying. I don't have a set idea on that.

What do they believe?

The Quran, which has my death warrant inscribed within it. If they're not out to kill/imprison me, thank God, but it also means the Quran's definition of what it considers Islam has been reduced.

What would they do to you?

See my paragraph above.

and (2) yes you absolutely did that repeatedly

See my paragraph four lines ago. Generalization would require someone say all of a group is like the most stereotypical people in said group. I made no such remark, and any claim that says I implied it is reading what's not in the words. I did refer to "them" though implying the fact there is a "conventional" way they go about themselves. The statement "all sheep are white" =/= the statement "sheep are typically white".

You didn’t ask for examples lol

So saying "for every question you say hasn’t been answered, I can point to (or quote) a part of what I said that does exactly that" isn't a cue for you to do, well, exactly that?

You cited his subreddit and your poorly-veiled, cagey focus is drawn from the islamophobia he pushes out. Maybe you’re so confused that you don’t even know where you picked up this garbage, but as I explained in my original response, that’s where these grifters come from.

Citing a post in a subreddit referred to as r/samharris isn't the same as citing the actual Sam Harris, so that confusion was on you. Such pseudo-groups occur all the time on Reddit. Neither does it imply everything in it is going to be created in malice. So that's a strawman, as have been much of the responses I've gotten.

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[-] shinigamiookamiryuu@lemm.ee 1 points 1 year ago
[-] Maoo@hexbear.net 1 points 1 year ago

The comment you're replying to with that statement implies I thought I addressed everything, and when you objected to that, I asked if you could point to where you believe I hadn't.

I just did that again it's the whole first paragraph that was basically just questions. And you never asked, you just made assertions.

PS I shouldn't need to do that because you are perfectly capable of going back, finding questions, and rethinking whether you addressed them.

If it's dishonest to ask someone to give examples, I would doubt you think anyone on this thread is honest.

Is that what I'm saying is dishonest?

What is the relevance of what you think would happen to you in an Islamic country?

The relevance is in the character. People see "true" cults with negative connotations. (...)

Right you're not getting the question. It's intended to make you question at a deeper level why you're asking the question in the first place, a question that builds on islamophobia tropes that are common in the sources you've cited. Everyone already knows you're thinking about comparing cults and Islam. Everyone already knows you perceive danger from Islam. I'm trying to prompt you to question why you chose this example in particular given that it is a trope among racists.

I’d also point out that Islam is not a monolith and Muslims are not a monolith, despite your implications, so which Islamic countries are you thinking of?

I didn't list them all, but I did give an area, and I did imply Palestine as it falls under the umbrella of current events.

You waved vaguely towards the Middle East albeit without actually directly answering my question. So no, you didn't answer that question, which was clearly asking you to concretize your veiled statements.

But okay, what comes to mind for you is Palestine. Nobody is surprised that you chose this moment to share denigrating opinions towards the people of Palestine. Again, I'm not stupid, but you are being cagey.

Do you see how my descriptions of racist islamophobia and its purveyors are relevant? An entire population is facing occupation and genocide and your first thoughts are about how to be afraid of and denigrate them, supposedly due to their culture and religion, and conflating them with the entirety of Islam (hmmm lumping very different cultures and ethnicities together to dismiss them over fears, I wonder what that is).

I don't have an exact visual map of all Islamic countries, but my point didn't require it, it does not need to specify which countries whether or not it claims all the countries over there are susceptible to it (and it doesn't), because it pertains to the cultures and the groups harbored by them. The point, again, is that cults have a better track record than those groups.

Doubling down to say "I don't need to distinguish Islamic countries" is an interesting choice.

See my paragraph above.

Your paragraph above doesn't really answer the yes or no question. Seems like it might be no? Who knows, you are afraid to speak plainly.

Nothing in particular. That was never a factor in what I was implying. I don't have a set idea on that.

You have no mental image of the people you fear would oppress you if you lived there? You don't know what people vaguely in the middle east (apparently what you're referring to) look like?

Anyways this question was intended to make you confront the cultural and ethnic diversity you were glossing over by lumping all of Islam together and you didn't answer it in any way earlier.

The Quran, which has my death warrant inscribed within it. If they're not out to kill/imprison me, thank God, but it also means the Quran's definition of what it considers Islam has been reduced.

Another question that was intended for you to think a little more deeply (and you didn't answer before).

Your entire understanding of Islam in the middle east is just that they all believe the Quran? The generous interpretation is that you know there's diversity and this is the commonality, but I think we both know that's not what you're thinking, especially given your comment about what's in it.

Have you actually read the Quran? The Hadith? The history of tolerance in Palestine and surrounding countries? The origins of fundamentalism that I mentioned in my earlier responses? (These are rhetorical, you obviously don't and are not curious).

See my paragraph above.

So, islamophobia?

See my paragraph four lines ago. Generalization would require someone say all of a group is like the most stereotypical people in said group.

Wrong. You just have to generalize by, say, ignorantly lumping all Islamic countries together to make a false claim. Though you certainly are leaning on right wing stereotypes of Muslims.

So saying "for every question you say hasn’t been answered, I can point to (or quote) a part of what I said that does exactly that" isn't a cue for you to do, well, exactly that?

Yeah you don't seem to understand what asking means. Are you confused about that all the time or only when contradicted?

Citing a post in a subreddit referred to as r/samharris isn't the same as citing the actual Sam Harris, so that confusion was on you.

I was hoping you'd try to make that meaningless distinction. You think I don't know why you use that source? lol

Such pseudo-groups occur all the time on Reddit. Neither does it imply everything in it is going to be created in malice. So that's a strawman, as have been much of the responses I've gotten.

Yessss I was hoping for an erroneous reference to a logical fallacy. Surprised it didn't come up earlier. I know your type very well, lol.

Don't worry I'll give you a free lesson anyways. A straw man argument is where you intentionally set up a position you claim your opponent holds (even though they don't) just because it's easier to knock down than their actual position. On the contrary, I've been trying to get your cagey butt to acknowledge what you've been hinting at and criticizing the positions I know are behind them. This is because you aren't fooling anyone with your veiled and general references, there are real humans here that know what islamophobic, chsuvinist "skeptic" grifters say and do and have actually had to spend time defending their communities from the braying racism you're trying to both show and hide.

[-] shinigamiookamiryuu@lemm.ee 1 points 1 year ago

I just did that again it’s the whole first paragraph that was basically just questions. And you never asked, you just made assertions. PS I shouldn’t need to do that because you are perfectly capable of going back, finding questions, and rethinking whether you addressed them.

Unless, of course, I believed I already addressed them, and my answers I did provide in my previous reply were paraphrasings of things I already said.

Right you’re not getting the question.

Kinda proves my point, doesn't it? You leave the interpreting to me and wonder why you get misinterpreted after I ask you to elaborate.

Everyone already knows you’re thinking about comparing cults and Islam.

You say that like there is no instant access to the many other replies I've gotten on this thread. You're the only one here with the objection you imply you have. The only one. "Everyone already knows you perceive danger from Islam" is false, again the other replies are readable, not only do I not assume all Muslims are the same but everyone else does agree something is afoot today with the culture. The keyword being culture.

So no, you didn’t answer that question, which was clearly asking you to concretize your veiled statements.

Again, proving my point I moments ago mentioned you proved.

But okay, what comes to mind for you is Palestine. Nobody is surprised that you chose this moment to share denigrating opinions towards the people of Palestine. Again, I’m not stupid, but you are being cagey.

I'm guessing this is personal for you. Yeah, I chose this moment, because this kind of thing is currently more vivid on peoples' minds.

Do you see how my descriptions of racist islamophobia and its purveyors are relevant? An entire population is facing occupation and genocide and your first thoughts are about how to be afraid of and denigrate them, supposedly due to their culture and religion, and conflating them with the entirety of Islam (hmmm lumping very different cultures and ethnicities together to dismiss them over fears, I wonder what that is).

To think I merely gave Islamic culture as an example of a broader topic and I incur your anger. Israel and Palestine are both somewhat guilty, the difference is one is the only state of its kind and not only does the other one follow a philosophical system followed by a whole area of the world but is also currently backed by Russia and North Korea, one of which is a nation with a machiavellian agenda while the other is a historically infamous human rights mess itself.

Doubling down to say “I don’t need to distinguish Islamic countries” is an interesting choice.

in-groups =/= cultures =/= countries

Your paragraph above doesn’t really answer the yes or no question. Seems like it might be no? Who knows, you are afraid to speak plainly.

You're proving that one point again.

You have no mental image of the people you fear would oppress you if you lived there? You don’t know what people vaguely in the middle east (apparently what you’re referring to) look like?

Must I? I'm trying not to generalize. Especially ethnicity. Are you asking me to?

Anyways this question was intended to make you confront the cultural and ethnic diversity you were glossing over by lumping all of Islam together and you didn’t answer it in any way earlier.

So in other words you set up a trap and I avoided it? I'm not understanding. This isn't about race. I'm not against any race. To say I am is... kinda generalizing. Culture is not race. Hawaii is an Asian-majority state, does that make it less Hawaiian culture than it was generations before? Aspects of peoples' biology is just not on my mind in any part of this.

Another question that was intended for you to think a little more deeply (and you didn’t answer before). Your entire understanding of Islam in the middle east is just that they all believe the Quran? The generous interpretation is that you know there’s diversity and this is the commonality, but I think we both know that’s not what you’re thinking, especially given your comment about what’s in it.

The whole point of not generalizing is to apply as few assumptions as possible, so yeah, all of Islamic culture has the Quran in common and nothing more. Again, are you asking me to generalize now?

Have you actually read the Quran? The Hadith? The history of tolerance in Palestine and surrounding countries? The origins of fundamentalism that I mentioned in my earlier responses? (These are rhetorical, you obviously don’t and are not curious).

Yes, I have read hundreds of works on this, enough that I can engage in conversations such as my tweet here and all the replies it's replying to, so no need to attack me with the remark that I must not for personal sake.

Inevitably, I have looked at the Quran to look for answers as well. Muhammad's darker moments are context-specific, but that doesn't mean they're not there and used to justify said human rights relapses.

The hadith is worse in this regard, though I wasn't even thinking of it, as many places in the Ummah, fortunately, don't even consider it unquestionable. It has the same problem as Paul's books in the Bible canon, in that it was written by authorities who wanted to put insertions in a growing movement.

Tolerance has varied in Palestine and surrounding countries throughout history, but in every point in history, they've always had at least a few people who they downplay, yet even the fact that any point in a group's history has systemic homicide makes it worst than your regular cult, none of which have any distinction of weeding out minorities on such a scale, again (for a fourth time) the point of my question being the worthiness of cultures versus cults.

Also, not sure if you're trying to imply they're not in the Ummah, but I should point out Southeast Asia is in the same sphere of influence. They, though, have been far, far better about how to treat minorities and only someone who is generalizing wouldn't give them an honorable mention.

So, islamophobia?

Read the above.

Wrong. You just have to generalize by, say, ignorantly lumping all Islamic countries together to make a false claim.

Then it's a good thing I didn't do that, now isn't it?

Though you certainly are leaning on right wing stereotypes of Muslims.

Put me on record as pointing out you're the very first person to bring politics into this. In the words of almost every Democratic candidate in the past two decades, human rights are not a political issue.

Yeah you don’t seem to understand what asking means. Are you confused about that all the time or only when contradicted?

I asked you in the reply of mine after the one where I cued you. You did acknowledge what my intentions were at the time too, namely when you told me to review it myself, so contradiction seems to be a theme here.

I was hoping you’d try to make that meaningless distinction. You think I don’t know why you use that source? lol

Case in point. You call it a meaningless distinction, but in practice it's generalization. I had seen the post before and googled it to get it again, that's why the post you saw is the one you got.

If done intentionally, putting words in someone's mouth regarding their views is what someone does when they have nothing they can say in response to their actual words.

Yessss I was hoping for an erroneous reference to a logical fallacy. Surprised it didn’t come up earlier. I know your type very well, lol.

Your replies where you assume my whole political ideology, culture, race, religion, and intentions would certainly suggest you think you do, but I have more proof to the contrary. Both in the form of my ability to speak for myself and links to me talking about my past viewed. Which makes it exactly how you describe strawmen in your definition.

On the contrary, I’ve been trying to get your cagey butt to acknowledge what you’ve been hinting at and criticizing the positions I know are behind them. This is because you aren’t fooling anyone with your veiled and general references, there are real humans here that know what islamophobic, chsuvinist “skeptic” grifters say and do and have actually had to spend time defending their communities from the braying racism you’re trying to both show and hide.

You think you know who I am? Prove it, with evidence (not just your word about my word versus my word about my word). I've been debating for a decade and a half, surely you can find evidence. Or you can acknowledge that, as I say again, that the OP is simply about cultures versus cults (in general).

[-] Maoo@hexbear.net 0 points 1 year ago

Unless, of course, I believed I already addressed them, and my answers I did provide in my previous reply were paraphrasings of things I already said.

We've now entered the pathological lying portion of coping with contradiction. You didn't answer several of those questions in any form and made confused passes at a couple out of order.

Kinda proves my point, doesn't it? You leave the interpreting to me and wonder why you get misinterpreted after I ask you to elaborate.

Uh yeah you do have to interpret questions in order to answer them that's how the game of question-answer works.

You say that like there is no instant access to the many other replies I've gotten on this thread. You're the only one here with the objection you imply you have. The only one.

Wrong. Check out those upvote ratios, lib.

"Everyone already knows you perceive danger from Islam" is false, again the other replies are readable, [...]

There is no contradiction even though you're acting like there is one.

Again, proving my point I moments ago mentioned you proved.

Your point where you feign incompetence to avoid answering a question?

I'm guessing this is personal for you. Yeah, I chose this moment, because this kind of thing is currently more vivid on peoples' minds.

Whoosh

To think I merely gave Islamic culture as an example (...)

You have still failed to internalize that there is no such thing as singular Islamic culture. You're doing the racist thing right here and now. You can't help yourself.

Israel and Palestine are both somewhat guilty (...)

Oh, I don't care about your ignorant opinions on Israel and Palestine.

in-groups =/= cultures =/= countries

?

Must I? I'm trying not to generalize. Especially ethnicity. Are you asking me to?

I was calling attention to the fact that Islam is multi-ethnic and global in contrast to your lazy and racist statements.

So in other words you set up a trap and I avoided it? I'm not understanding.

I suppose you would think that challenging your false assumptions is some kind of trap, lol.

This isn't about race. I'm not against any race. To say I am is... kinda generalizing. Culture is not race. Hawaii is an Asian-majority state, does that make it less Hawaiian culture than it was generations before? Aspects of peoples' biology is just not on my mind in any part of this.

And yet you conflated islamic culture and being vaguely middle eastern. Of course you're being racist. Only someone who has no idea how race is socially constructed could disagree.

Race has never been about biology btw.

The whole point of not generalizing [...]

I am describing what you've done, you just don't like the characterization.

Yes, I have read hundreds of works on this, enough that I can engage in conversations such as my tweet here and all the replies it's replying to, so no need to attack me with the remark that I must not for personal sake.

"I have read hundreds of works on this" is weirdly not an answer to my question and makes me wonder what the "yes" means. If you are claiming to have read the Quran and the Hadith, as in all of it, I don't believe you. You have demonstrated nothing but ignorance of Islam and incuriosity.

Who knows what that tweet is supposed to demonstrate.

[A strange set of seemingly random statements about the Quran and Hadith]

Cool this jives with my position that you've exclusively read other people's opinions.

Tolerance has varied in Palestine and surrounding countries throughout history, but in every point in history, they've always had at least a few people who they downplay,

Who is "they"? What does it mean that they downplayed a few people? None of this makes sense.

yet even the fact that any point in a group's history has systemic homicide [...]

None of this makes any sense. It is not coherent thoughts.

Also, not sure if you're trying to imply they're not in the Ummah, but I should point out Southeast Asia is in the same sphere of influence.

A sphere of influence has an influencer, which is required to understand the claim, but you don't list one.

They, though, have been far, far better about how to treat minorities and only someone who is generalizing wouldn't give them an honorable mention.

Except you did generalize and in fact keep doing it over and over again. You can't rhetoric your past and current statements out of existence.

Then it's a good thing I didn't do that, now isn't it?

Except you did.

Put me on record as pointing out you're the very first person to bring politics into this. In the words of almost every Democratic candidate in the past two decades, human rights are not a political issue.

  1. This post and thread is inherently political. Impressive that you don't understand that.

  2. Why should I respect the opinion of Democratic candidates?

  3. Human rights are 100% political. In fact, the term itself is used in an exclusively political way. Have you ever noticed how only non-Western-aligned countries are the only ones described as violating human rights?

I asked you in the reply of mine after the one where I cued you.

I will help you understand what asking is. If it doesn't have a question mark, you didn't ask for it.

Case in point. You call it a meaningless distinction, but in practice it's generalization. I had seen the post before and googled it to get it again, that's why the post you saw is the one you got.

Generalization is not inherently bad and is in fact necessary for someone to learn anything. Learning things like what kind of person thinks Sam Harris isn't an embarrassment and uses his subreddit as a source.

A generalization is bad when it's reactionary and dehumanizing, like being racist.

If done intentionally, putting words in someone's mouth regarding their views is what someone does when they have nothing they can say in response to their actual words.

Did I make up the fact that you cited the Sam Harris subreddit? You know, the subreddit dedicated to the infamous islamophobe? The "skeptic" who uses the same language you do? Folks that jump at the chance to identify a perceived logical fallacy?

Your replies where you assume my whole political ideology

I haven't mentioned your political ideology. I would wager that it is incoherent and immature. But you are embedded in a reactionary and islamophobic subculture somewhere, one in the orbit of self-proclaimed skeptics or rationalists.

culture

Not difficult to guess given what people worry about a vague conglomeration of Muslims coming to their country and making things dangerous.

[my] race, religion

Nope haven't said anything about those

intentions

Easy to interpret from your caginess and use of multiple racist and xenophobic tropes.

would certainly suggest you think you do, but I have more proof to the contrary. Both in the form of my ability to speak for myself and links to me talking about my past viewed.

These are not in contradiction with what I said.

Which makes it exactly how you describe strawmen in your definition.

Except it's not because the things I'm criticizing are the things you're actually writing down right here on the internet.

You think you know who I am? Prove it, with evidence (not just your word about my word versus my word about my word). I've been debating for a decade and a half, surely you can find evidence.

No thanks. Don't care and I already have enough info for my personal satisfaction.

I'm just letting you know that this is all unoriginal and I'm already very familiar with it, right down to the obsessive sophistry to avoid admitting any kind of error whatsoever.

Or you can acknowledge that, as I say again, that the OP is simply about cultures versus cults (in general).

Nah I'll stick with the truth.

[-] shinigamiookamiryuu@lemm.ee 1 points 1 year ago

We’ve now entered the pathological lying portion of coping with contradiction. You didn’t answer several of those questions in any form and made confused passes at a couple out of order.

It's easy to say that all one wants about someone they're talking to if no second opinion is granted or if ignoring all the other replies, so I'll take someone else's word for it. You don't come across as a semanticist.

Uh yeah you do have to interpret questions in order to answer them that’s how the game of question-answer works.

If only I was referring to that.

Wrong. Check out those upvote ratios, lib.

I did, semi-anonymous upvotes and downvotes (whose unreliability is ironically consistent enough it can be relied upon and aren't even particularly plentiful in this case but also which can be seen in the modlog) don't change my statement about replies and repliers.

Also, the fact I'm accused of being a lib while also being accused of being right winged suggests this is about dislike for me somehow and not an actual point.

There is no contradiction even though you’re acting like there is one.

...as opposed to?

Your point where you feign incompetence to avoid answering a question?

No, but thank you for asking.

You have still failed to internalize that there is no such thing as singular Islamic culture. You’re doing the racist thing right here and now. You can’t help yourself.

I'm sorry, I meant metaculture (happy?).

Oh, I don’t care about your ignorant opinions on Israel and Palestine.

I couldn't tell based on your comments bringing it up.

I was calling attention to the fact that Islam is multi-ethnic and global in contrast to your lazy and racist statements.

Then why ask?

I suppose you would think that challenging your false assumptions is some kind of trap, lol.

You implied it was.

And yet you conflated islamic culture and being vaguely middle eastern. Of course you’re being racist. Only someone who has no idea how race is socially constructed could disagree.

You're reading too much into the simple act of someone pointing a finger.

Race has never been about biology btw.

Uhm, yeah, I'll definitely let the Lemmy world get back to you on that one, especially considering race has sadly been dragged into the topic of eugenics and considering the ongoing debate of whether transracial identity is valid.

“I have read hundreds of works on this” is weirdly not an answer to my question and makes me wonder what the “yes” means.

Because it goes with the "yes", my argumentatively novice friend.

If you are claiming to have read the Quran and the Hadith, as in all of it, I don’t believe you. You have demonstrated nothing but ignorance of Islam and incuriosity.

I can name the verses people cite in order to justify violence. I don't NEED to see anything else to criticize these verses. Yet I have read enough from the Quran/Hadith that you can quiz me on them.

I have doubts you'll answer this, but tell me for the sake of suggesting consistency, by your logic, are the people who use select verses to justify violence (or anything else) ignorant of the group they claim to be a part of since they too imply that much of the book has a very different attitude... especially considering the fact there's a longstanding speculation amongst scholars that the final chapters of the Quran were written by Muhammad's hostile in-laws (through Aisha) who wanted to make him seem more like them?

Who knows what that tweet is supposed to demonstrate.

Exactly what it says on the tin.

Cool this jives with my position that you’ve exclusively read other people’s opinions.

Or that multiple people can, I don't know, come to the same opinions on things. It's not rocket science, and you didn't even quote anything there.

None of this makes any sense. It is not coherent thoughts.

Maybe because that's not the complete sentence.

A sphere of influence has an influencer, which is required to understand the claim, but you don’t list one.

Ahem, this guy perhaps?

Except you did generalize and in fact keep doing it over and over again. You can’t rhetoric your past and current statements out of existence.

...as opposed to?

Except you did.

...as opposed to?

This post and thread is inherently political.

Then why insert religion into the mix, hmm?

Why should I respect the opinion of Democratic candidates?

You accuse me of being right wing, then of being a liberal, then ask me why you should respect the position of Democratic candidates? How does one please you?

Human rights are 100% political. In fact, the term itself is used in an exclusively political way.

They are politicized, but that isn't the same as saying they are destined to be political by design. I believe in a world where faith, race, ethnicity, medical condition, politics, family, etc. don't play a role in how someone is treated. If you're judging someone by the contents of their character, you don't need to know any of these things about someone, and if someone feels they must persecute a fact of life/biology/society such as one's ethnicity or medical condition in order for their doctrine so-to-speak to work, can we even call it practical since types of people who are part and parcel to the human experience serve as a kryptonite to said doctrine?

Have you ever noticed how only non-Western-aligned countries are the only ones described as violating human rights?

That's a generalization, is it not? You can tell me if your sentiments are personal or not.

Easily I can name Western countries that engage in human rights abuses, in fact most of them did at some time, from Britain and the famine of India to the US and its early 1800's/1900's eugenics program to the fact Canada wasn't allowing people with medical conditions to immigrate there until covid happened.

I will help you understand what asking is. If it doesn’t have a question mark, you didn’t ask for it.

Then it's settled.

Generalization is not inherently bad and is in fact necessary for someone to learn anything. Learning things like what kind of person thinks Sam Harris isn’t an embarrassment and uses his subreddit as a source.

A broken clock is right twice a day, eh?

Did I make up the fact that you cited the Sam Harris subreddit? You know, the subreddit dedicated to the infamous islamophobe? The “skeptic” who uses the same language you do? Folks that jump at the chance to identify a perceived logical fallacy?

No, but you did make up several other things about me and what I have been saying/implying (reread this whole reply section for more on that). One of these being the notion that I didn't link to a post from that subreddit coincidentally. You hate the subreddit obviously, but what do you say about the post itself (aside from it being in its subreddit)?

I haven’t mentioned your political ideology. I would wager that it is incoherent and immature.

Ahem, you variously accused me of being right wing and a liberal. I'm starting to question how sound you think you are.

But you are embedded in a reactionary and islamophobic subculture somewhere, one in the orbit of self-proclaimed skeptics or rationalists.

You would be surprised (ain't that an understatement)

Easy to interpret from your caginess and use of multiple racist and xenophobic tropes.

Keyword here is "interpret". You're not concluding anything without a doubt.

These are not in contradiction with what I said.

But they are assumptions.

Except it’s not because the things I’m criticizing are the things you’re actually writing down right here on the internet.

Things I say =/= interpretations of things I say

No thanks. Don’t care and I already have enough info for my personal satisfaction. I’m just letting you know that this is all unoriginal and I’m already very familiar with it, right down to the obsessive sophistry to avoid admitting any kind of error whatsoever.

Directly goes against your claims of not assuming anything about me or my politics/culture/etc.

I'll give you a demonstration/example of your lack of the knowledge you claim you can infer from me about me. I can guarantee nowhere in your info does it say I'm on the socialism spectrum. Did you see that coming? Now, if you're still confident you can infer things from me, can you guess my exact philosophy?

Nah I’ll stick with the truth.

You mean headcanon?

[-] Maoo@hexbear.net -1 points 1 year ago

It's easy to say that all one wants about someone they're talking to if no second opinion is granted or if ignoring all the other replies, so I'll take someone else's word for it. You don't come across as a semanticist.

  1. Deflection.

  2. Incomprehensible.

If only I was referring to that.

It's what you said don't blame me

I did, semi-anonymous upvotes and downvotes (whose unreliability is ironically consistent enough it can be relied upon and aren't even particularly plentiful in this case but also which can be seen in the modlog) don't change my statement about replies and repliers.

It means I'm not the only one with my sentiment (your claim) and that people think your comments are bad. This is obvious. Your primary tactic in disagreement is to refuse to even try to understand very simple things or look for some pointless technicality. This is a dishonest thing to do, you know.

Also, the fact I'm accused of being a lib while also being accused of being right winged suggests this is about dislike for me somehow and not an actual point.

You should learn to ask questions when you don't understand something, as you seem to be unfamiliar with the vast majority of things that you want to have an opinion on. Calling you liberal and subscribing to right wing end reactionary talking points is entirely consistent, you just don't know what I mean by liberal. Let's see if you can figure out how to acquire this information!

...as opposed to?

This makes no sense. What is your point or question?

I'm sorry, I meant metaculture (happy?).

Suuuuuure you did. 10 comments deep trying to do a little dance and you'd like to revise your claim to an esoteric term used by like 200 people on the planet and where is entirely opaque if not oxymoronic in how it would even apply to all of the things you've said.

A simpler explanation: you don't handle being wrong very well.

I couldn't tell based on your comments bringing it up.

Glad we sorted it out then

Then why ask?

The quote you're responding to literally says why. More feigned incompetence.

You implied it was.

Please don't lie. Lying is bad.

You're reading too much into the simple act of someone pointing a finger.

It's just the same thing over and over again. Lying and deflecting. Pointless little quips. Incomprehensible statements from a confused mind.

Racist conflation is not "the simple act of someone pointing a finger", but your behavior in claiming it is as good a reason as any to give up on you as being a pathological liar with no capacity to self-criticize or even go through the motions of a conversation.

Because this has become so repetitive and the blocking point is your bad faith behavior, I'll just dismiss you and stop replying. May you someday have the courage of your convictions and until then shut your trap.

[-] shinigamiookamiryuu@lemm.ee 1 points 1 year ago

It’s what you said don’t blame me

You're not the authority of what I say/mean. Alone, perhaps you'll never realize this. Hence the part before it about taking someone else's word for it, which you claimed was deflection.

It means I’m not the only one with my sentiment (your claim) and that people think your comments are bad. This is obvious. Your primary tactic in disagreement is to refuse to even try to understand very simple things or look for some pointless technicality. This is a dishonest thing to do, you know.

Replies prove that, not upvotes and downvotes. Only words can clarify someone's reasoning. Votes are not a language, nor are they an argument. I don't even see downvotes anywhere this time around.

you just don’t know what I mean by liberal. Let’s see if you can figure out how to acquire this information!

Alright, let's make a trade. Rather than put words in your mouth, I will ask you about the things you say and accept you as the sole authority of your own words. In return, I ask you to ask me about the things I say and accept me as the sole authority of my own words. Do we have a deal?

This makes no sense. What is your point or question?

The words "...as opposed to" are asked when someone is singling out one individual, entity, or action that one would expect to exist under the same rules as others which have not received the same credit or blame. I said that a number of times because it was therefore fitting to ask a number of times.

Suuuuuure you did. 10 comments deep trying to do a little dance and you’d like to revise your claim to an esoteric term used by like 200 people on the planet and where is entirely opaque if not oxymoronic in how it would even apply to all of the things you’ve said. A simpler explanation: you don’t handle being wrong very well.

You'd have to prove someone wrong first, but instead you're trying to belittle, something people do when they cannot handle being wrong.

The quote you’re responding to literally says why. More feigned incompetence.

So you asked me, in response to a reply that wasn't about race on a post that wasn't about Palestine or even Islam in general except for an example, what race I see Muslims in the same reply as you accuse me of generalization, and when I say I don't see them as any race in particular, not only do you claim the purpose of the question went over my head, but you say you asked because my answer was correct, as if belittling it was pointless?

Please don’t lie. Lying is bad.

If it wasn't, my point above this one is where the confusion lies. No attempt at lying here, there's already been so much of that lately.

It’s just the same thing over and over again. Lying and deflecting. Pointless little quips. Incomprehensible statements from a confused mind.

Then why do it? You're the only one in this whole thread with any issue, unless you can point to someone else who has had it. The most desperate form of deflection was using upvotes/downvotes as a point like populists always do.

Racist conflation is not “the simple act of someone pointing a finger”, but your behavior in claiming it is as good a reason as any to give up on you as being a pathological liar with no capacity to self-criticize or even go through the motions of a conversation.

Our respective profile/comment feeds say otherwise, even the relevant parts.

Because this has become so repetitive and the blocking point is your bad faith behavior, I’ll just dismiss you and stop replying. May you someday have the courage of your convictions and until then shut your trap.

Don't tell me to shut up, you're not my mom.

[-] Doubledee@hexbear.net 2 points 1 year ago

Then why do it? You're the only one in this whole thread with any issue, unless you can point to someone else who has had it. The most desperate form of deflection was using upvotes/downvotes as a point like populists always do.

But they aren't the only person here with an issue. My comment wasn't as confrontational but I also clearly raised a red flag at the question being asked and the reasons people start asking these kinds of questions. I also see what you're doing. I just don't want to spend the next week doing this thing you're calling a debate.

[-] shinigamiookamiryuu@lemm.ee 1 points 1 year ago

My comparison between Scientology and the sphere of Islamic thought was nothing more than an example of what I was asking in the OP, no matter how partially inspired the act of asking the question was by current events, and to say I had more of a motive than that is to read too much into it by assuming my mind and put words in my mouth, especially considering I named other cultural spheres in replies to other comments. Note that even their first few comments goes on to do things like assume my culture and undermine my capacity, so you're right, it would be generous to call this a debate.

Questioning someone's motives is like diagnosing a medical condition, you just cannot do it impersonally without some doubt when compared to doing it personally, but in the case of the former, you can always ask questions. I would've (and in fact have) dispelled the fears the two of you had, unless someone is insisting someone else has the authority to be my proxy even despite my objections.

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