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Sore Losers of Lemmy: What Helped You Start to Lose with Grace?
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Probably not the answer you're looking for, but weed. I hate losing at anything, and that compounds heavily in matter that I care about. I've completely cut NFL from my life starting last year because that's the only way that I found to not feel like shit after a loss. Not only did it ruin a day or two for me, I was a twat. Prior to weed, I was overtly aggressive. Not to others but my language and inanimate objects. Weed chilled those tendencies, but it didn't fix post game losses. I've had to do a lot of deliberate mental work to stop caring. I think I was raised to be competitive, so breaking those traits has taken years.