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EDIT: Thank you all so much for your thoughtful input. It means so much to me.

Hi, all. I'm looking to change my nasty tendency to be a sore loser, particularly when playing games. I tend to personalize losses that are of no consequence. When the game starts to shift against me, I often stop trying as hard because it feels hopeless. My partner is much more proficient at board games than I am, and I don't want this toxic trait of mine to make games less fun for us. What are some things you all tried to lessen this train of thought, if you've experienced it?

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[-] ada@lemmy.blahaj.zone 35 points 1 year ago

For me it was a shift in perspective. It sounds trite, but basically, I turned "having fun" in to the thing I'm trying to win. So I still optimise and strategise, but sometimes it's to make ridiculous moves that will make people laugh. Sometimes it's to keep the game close, and sometimes it's just to try and win. It all depends on who I'm playing with and the mood at the table

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