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Sore Losers of Lemmy: What Helped You Start to Lose with Grace?
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this post was submitted on 24 Oct 2023
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If it won't bother you in six months, its not worth getting bothered about.
Or even 6 days or hours.
While I did upvote you on this, I think it's a matter of scale. Some things in that scale are certainly worth being bothered over, especially if you're younger or have rapid life changes. However I fully agree things like games fit in there (for me).
That being said, everyone is built different, and what I might think is trivial could be the most important thing in someone else's life in that moment and bother them for days. So I tend to lean towards the 6 month range, as it covers most everything.
Exactly this. For me, life happened. My life has way bigger issues than being upset about or even truly recognizing a loss in a game.