I can definitely see why you've struggled so much since the common factors between the games you didn't like are the most rampant in the industry right now. I've tended to find myself in a similar situation and would only remove Spider-Man from the list of not liked. Because of constant push-backs, I'm honestly not sure what the release forecast looks like at this point because I've refused to play into the hype train for a while now.

In case you haven't already tried them, based on your favourites list, I'd recommend taking a look at Satisfactory and Jusant. The first is Factorio but in 3D so it plays into some of what people like about Stardew, in my opinion and Jusant is an interesting blend of Journey and Shadow of the Colossus from what I've played so far. It also has a rare thing called a 'demo' on Steam so you can at least easily and freely give it a try.