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Nobody says it anymore (startrek.website)

I've heard it explained that "hey" used to be more of an urgent way to get someone's attention, rather than a casual "hello" like it is now, so it sounded rude to some older folks.

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[-] Pickle_Jr@lemmy.dbzer0.com 108 points 2 years ago

When I was a waiter, there was no shortage of boomers getting genuinely upset with me saying "No problem" as a reply to "thanks".

[-] edgemaster72@lemmy.world 59 points 2 years ago

I prefer to say no problem over you're welcome cuz it always (to me) sounds sarcastic/disingenuous when I say you're welcome

[-] captain_aggravated@sh.itjust.works 41 points 2 years ago

It's like this:

You have a boss. A wrinkled plus-sized brown business jacket of a man whose idea of "cutting costs" is turning the air conditioner off. If he caught on fire, you wouldn't piss on him to put him out. How do you address him? "Good morning Mr. Perkins, how are you doing today?"

You've got a war buddy. You met at boot camp, you served in the same company, he splinted your leg in the field, you're his kids' godfather. You'd kill and die for this man. How do you address him? "Ah god not this fucking asshole again."

Official formal polite language like "Thank you" and "You're welcome" is the pair of nitrile gloves I put on to handle the really noxious shit that comes my way. "w'thanks man" and "no problem" means I'm willing to handle you with my bare skin.

[-] EtherWhack@lemmy.world 29 points 2 years ago

"No problem" also carries the implication that the favor was taken and done without ill will, where "you're welcome" carries one of superiority

[-] SuckMyWang@lemmy.world 9 points 2 years ago

I like to say no problemo. It suggests that the favour was done with a touch of Mexican

[-] oce@jlai.lu 8 points 2 years ago

Superiority from using formal language?

[-] schmidtster@lemmy.world 5 points 2 years ago

Well one would expect it at a five star restaurant, but not your local dive. So… kinda..?

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[-] corsicanguppy@lemmy.ca 3 points 2 years ago

TIL manners are uppity.

[-] CaptFeather@lemm.ee 11 points 2 years ago

Ugggggh I went through this with my (boomer) boss for years until she finally accepted it lmao. Then it was, "WORRIES, CaptFeather! WORRIES!" as a joke every time I said it lol

[-] Karyoplasma@discuss.tchncs.de 9 points 2 years ago

I had no idea that it's considered improper. Online gaming is like

thx

np

[-] whatwhatwutyut@midwest.social 8 points 2 years ago

Thx must have been too many letters because all I see now is "ty"

[-] corsicanguppy@lemmy.ca 5 points 2 years ago

It's a stretch for kids to write anything completely online. We call it Kid Pidgin.

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[-] ElBarto@sh.itjust.works 7 points 2 years ago

As an Aussie I don't understand how people get confused by 'no worries' .

[-] dubyakay@lemmy.ca 3 points 2 years ago
[-] ElBarto@sh.itjust.works 3 points 2 years ago

Nah the prison guards are too uptight.

[-] FlyingSquid@lemmy.world 3 points 2 years ago

I'm an American and I say that all the time. I'm not sure how I picked it up.

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[-] SwallowsDick@lemmy.world 6 points 2 years ago

Lol did they specifically want "you're welcome?"

[-] Pickle_Jr@lemmy.dbzer0.com 6 points 2 years ago* (last edited 2 years ago)

Absolutely. I could understand it if it was a formal dining place I suppose. But it was a fucking Applebee's in a 20k population town with one other restaurant lmao

[-] michaelmrose@lemmy.world 4 points 2 years ago

Applebees is Sit down McDonalds with better food. If one of your seating option is at the fake wood bar its not fine dining.

[-] Trainguyrom@reddthat.com 5 points 2 years ago

A family member of mine briefly worked at Applebee's. Literally everything is microwaved. I happened to get a Fettuccine Alfredo there and have one of the Marie Calendars frozen Fettuccine Alfredo meals (>$2 at the store) in the same week and realized once its plated you literally could not tell the two apart. Same quality, same quantity, but the store bought meal costs 1/5 the price and is somehow ready faster

[-] FireTower@lemmy.world 3 points 2 years ago

It was probably the finest dining in town though.

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