[-] FlyingSquid@lemmy.world 0 points 3 hours ago

How you plan to prove it is not my problem. You made the claim, the onus is on you to do so. That's how the burden of proof works.

Also, your personal anecdote about one single person is neither verifiable nor extendable to any more than that one person when talking about beliefs and convictions.

[-] FlyingSquid@lemmy.world 0 points 3 hours ago

Excellent, thanks for all the info!

[-] FlyingSquid@lemmy.world 0 points 3 hours ago

It's more about having to learn a very confusing language as a school requirement than just getting around that worries me, but thank you.

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[-] FlyingSquid@lemmy.world 3 points 12 hours ago

Thanks, I appreciate all the answers!

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“Ukraine is ready to hand over Kim Jong Un’s soldiers to him if he can organize their exchange for our fighters who are being held captive in Russia,” Zelensky said in a social media post late Sunday, referring to the North Korean leader.

Zelensky added that “for those soldiers who do not wish to return” to North Korea, “there may be other options available.” He did not provide further details, other than to say that “those who express a desire to bring peace closer by spreading the truth” about the war in Ukraine “will be given that opportunity.”

“There will undoubtedly be more” North Korean soldiers captured, he said.

Paywall bypass: https://archive.is/HIMse

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[-] FlyingSquid@lemmy.world 2 points 1 day ago

Once again, I have no idea who you are, so this idea of yours that I have some sort of vendetta against you really is not going to work with me. I'm sorry, you're not important enough in my life for me to consistently do anything with you.

Also, weird how you said goodnight to me and then came back. I wonder if you'll respond again about how I'm a big meanie who is out to get you in specific? Better do it soon because I have way more shit on my mind than your existence, so I'm sure that will go out the window pretty damn quickly.

[-] FlyingSquid@lemmy.world 6 points 1 day ago

The important stuff to you might not be the important stuff to someone else. And not everything gets reposted.

I'm not saying that's a good reason to stay on Twitter, but I am saying it's a big reason people stay.

[-] FlyingSquid@lemmy.world 6 points 1 day ago

Okay, can you please show me the stats and studies you used to determine that the stereotype fits for Indiana? I assume you do not have a double-standard here.

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The YouTube link should be cued up to the proper spot.

I have heard that song I have no idea how many times, but I never noticed. It's one of my favorite Pink Floyd songs too.

The tune also quotes Delia Derbyshire's realisation of Ron Grainer's Doctor Who theme music from the British science fiction television series Doctor Who.[12][13][unreliable source?] This quotation is most clear in live performances.[14]

https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/One_of_These_Days_(instrumental)

And it really wasn't a coincidence:

"Embryo" was the first Pink Floyd song to contain an excerpt of the theme, appearing in live performances in 1971, although in "Embryo" only the first two bars of the theme would play, as opposed to a much longer segment in "Cymbaline". Oddly, these two songs were often performed at the same concerts. "One of These Days", the opening track of Pink Floyd's 1971 album Meddle, echoes the theme about 3 minutes into the track. The reference was made more explicit in live performances.[16] In addition, their song "Sheep" has a bassline very similar to the theme song's bassline and the opening 3 notes of the main theme are played at 06.47, whilst live performances featured a much longer excerpt of the theme.

https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Doctor_Who_theme_music#Remixes_and_remakes

[-] FlyingSquid@lemmy.world 11 points 1 day ago

You're right, he's from an even more racist place. So I'm not sure why you think that's an unfair stereotype when it is a fair one for a U.S. state that never had apartheid or slavery.

[-] FlyingSquid@lemmy.world 12 points 1 day ago

I'm a white guy from Indiana. And if Elon Musk was from Indiana and someone said, "a guy from Indiana made his app anti-black? Shocking." I'd be like, "I know, right? This state is full of racist as fuck white people." I wouldn't be offended.

[-] FlyingSquid@lemmy.world 7 points 1 day ago

Maybe I'm unusual here, but if I saw 200 corpses in a big pile, I would think that someone killed a whole bunch of people.

[-] FlyingSquid@lemmy.world 10 points 1 day ago

FOMO is incredibly powerful unfortunately.

[-] FlyingSquid@lemmy.world 31 points 1 day ago

How else would the slave-owning states have the slavery powers they so needed?!?

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People who have never been to L.A. really have no idea how insanely huge it is. Driving to my apartment from the start of city (before you even get to L.A. county) and having the city just keep going and going and going for two hours and not because of traffic jams is something you have to experience to truly understand.

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Details here.

I have most of the big details sorted, but because I am going to be new in the country aside from a few family visits and one business trip, I have far from expert knowledge on living in the UK. I try to research as much as I can, but there are limits.

These questions are going to probably be subjective, and some may be dependent on where we're going to live in Britain long-term, something I can't tell you until I get a job, but I trust people on Lemmy more than some random Google search to tell me what they actually think.

So, here are my 20 questions- although some are really multipart questions- and I will probably end up asking more based on what I find out. I felt like 20 was an exhausting enough number. They are not in any particular order, I had about 8 and then I kept thinking of others and stopped trying to organize them. Please feel free to answer as many or as few as you like. Assume we won't be getting rich off of my salary, but also won't be living in a council flat.

  1. Which mobile phone company would you recommend and why? Getting a UK phone number for both me and my daughter is going to be one of the very first things on my itinerary.
  2. Obviously, I will need a place to put my money. I would rather go with a building society than a bank. Which would you recommend?
  3. Which supermarket(s) would you recommend? Which should we avoid and why? Believe it or not, my daughter is happy to eat the cheap supermarket sushi they have in supermarkets here. Is that available there?
  4. What should I think about when getting us a GP? I have health issues and need to get a National Insurance number as quickly as possible, but should I wait until we have a more permanent place to live? What are my options there?
  5. My daughter is a 14-year-old neurodivergent lesbian who has no problem letting people know exactly what she thinks and also likes to go on long tangents about esoteric subjects that interest her, which makes it difficult enough for her to find friends in the U.S., but I have no idea how she's going to find friends in the UK. She will hopefully make some in school (it's sure as hell been hard for her here, and it's going to be hard on her there being foreign), but I'd love other suggestions on ways she might make friends in the UK that might not be a way in the U.S. She is super into Japanese stuff, but slightly off Japanese stuff, like obscure anime and electronica bands from the 1970s and 1980s, although she also loves punk rock and Hello Kitty 🤷. She also is a very talented artist and spends all day sketching in sketchbooks and on her iPad.
  6. This is going to sound really stupid... do I just carry around my passport or how do I show ID if someone needs it? I'm not going to have a driving license.
  7. What difficulties do you think I might encounter trying to rent a flat or house? I really don't know how the process works in Britain. In the U.S. they often do a credit check and you provide first and last month's rent, plus a security deposit. Utilities are not always included.
  8. Once we get settled, is Ikea the best place to go to get furniture (I don't find what they have to be all that comfortable), or are the similar affordable options?
  9. How about house wares? We care much more about utility over aesthetics, especially when getting established. I'd rather have cheap, durable plates and bowls and pots and pans than pretty, expensive ones.
  10. And how about clothing? I do not care at all about fashion, I just want decent clothing that will look appropriate at a job. Obviously, I have plenty of that already, but it will need to be replaced eventually. Where do I go for cheap and durable over expensive and fashionable?
  11. Are ISPs as dependent on where you live as they are here? We have very few options available and they are entirely geographically dependent. ISP recommendations would be great. I would especially love an ISP that didn't have data caps.
  12. If I watch everything on a monitor via my computer, do I still need to pay a TV license fee or do I only need to play it if I want to use iPlayer? How does that all work? I definitely will not have an actual TV for a while.
  13. My daughter's absolute favourite breakfast treat is going to a diner and getting corned beef hash. Is that a thing over there? Is there an okay breakfast place to take her to so she can have it once in a while?
  14. I'm guessing this is a no, but if anyone knows of anywhere in the UK that serves decent Mexican food, even if it is just somewhere I can take her to as a weekend treat, please tell me. That is her absolute favourite kind of food in general. By "Mexican food," I mean "the shit they call Mexican food in America which isn't really Mexican food" (you might notice I'm not a fan), so you would have to be familiar with both in order to answer this.
  15. I have been looking for a long time and I just haven't found anything good- does anyone know a video or series of videos I can show to my kid as a basic "life in the UK in the 2020s as a teen" primer? I try to tell her all that I can, but it's not like I can tell her what it's like to be a teen in the UK in 2025. I was last there as an adult in the 2000s, before she was even born, and Britain was already a noticeably different place from the last time I was there in the 1990s. I mean I know she's going to make a lot of cultural faux pas, but it would be nice to find a way to minimize them beyond me telling her things like what "pants" means in the UK and that "cunt" is not thought of in the UK as the horrific word it's considered to be in the U.S.
  16. This is just something I've been wondering from job ads: when they say "casual dress," what do they mean? In the U.S. that means you can show up in a T-shirt and sweats. I don't want to make my own faux pas there.
  17. If we end up having to move to Wales- I am interviewing for a job in Swansea this week- it's my understanding that my daughter will have to study Welsh in school. Does anyone have any experience moving to Wales with a teenager who is suddenly put into a (what I assume would be very remedial) Welsh language class? Any advice there?
  18. I basically never carry cash on me in the U.S. at this point. What might I need to carry it for there or is it also unnecessary?
  19. Do UK institutions care about your US credit rating?
  20. I hate Marmite. Is that still a capital offence?
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