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You can’t even pay people to have more kids
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Kids are not affordable or cute or have fur, plus they take time l, a lot of time. For me there's no reason to have kids.
The problem with dogs and cats as a child replacement is you usually outlive them.
I can live with that, atleast I can take care of them until the end. And it's not like life is certain, I can die before them.
I can live with it too. I have twice now. But it is a very difficult heartbreak. I haven't had one of them for 13 years and I got her when I first moved out of my parents' house, so she was with me my entire adult life until she died. I still miss her.
That can happen with kids too, and it's far worse. At least with pets you know they're only going to live around ___ years.
True. Outliving my daughter is my greatest fear.
And your daughters I guess would be extatic to know you'll one day ditch them to be on their own after making them?
Most children outlive their parents and I'm not sure why you think I don't care what she will feel.
That's not a con... why would you make someone exist so they can experience your old age and death. That's fucked.
I said nothing about a con.