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Any health issues that affect your ability to do "normal" things is a disability, no matter how severe, but using the term ablist at people is counter productive. It's a great term for describing types of behaviors and attitudes, but it's not productive in a real life ablist encounter. It just makes them defensive and deaf to reason. Work with them to create knowledge and understanding, don't oppose them or accuse them, offer friendly insight into your life. If they accept it, great, if not, move on. You can't control others, don't stress about it.
That said, I'm not sure what you mean by "not recognized". If it's a medical issue of any variety, it's recognized somewhere in the DSM. But it is very popular, especially among young people, to self diagnose and go on as of it's a sure thing. There are crap doctors out there, so one should seek as many opinions as needed, but until a physician diagnoses it, it is ablist to coopt disabilities and misresent what being disabled actually is based on a hunch. The way to act in this situation is to say "I think I might have x, but I haven't gotten a confirmation yet" or something. Totally fine. But saying "I have x" when no physician has told them so is lying to others and themselves for their own ego.
If someone were to make up diseases not recognized by the DSM and claiming it's a disability, this is just as ablist.
I am on permanent disability, unable to work, with severe mental health shit. I live in Canada. If you want more info, feel free to dm me.
Thanks. Recognised as a medical issue but not as a disability, is what I meant. Certain medical issues aren't considered disabilities as far as I know, even though they can affect a person's ability to do things. Or are you saying that all medical conditions are disabilities? Apologies if I was mistaken
Also I'm just wondering, isn't it possible the DSM could be behind in recognising certain conditions? It may be widely recognised, but just not necessarily by the DSM. I get that you might not call it a disability then but perhaps still a health issue? I'm not sure
If your medical situation impacts your life in any way, that's a disability. Being short sighted is a disability, having chronic diarrhea or headaches is a disability. Having a disability and being disabled should be the same thing in common speech, but confusingly, it is not. You are disabled if you experience significant barriers to everyday life because of medical circumstances. If you believe that's you, then you are free to identify as disabled.
Another confusing wrench is governmental disability designations. The definition changes from region to region based on politics, not medicine. This is only a metric of whether or not you require the services available to you in your region. It is not your identity and does not mean you are not disabled or don't deal with disabilities just because some underfunded ministry rejected your application.
So in short, you get to identify as disabled if you feel the label is helpful, it's not something doctors use because any medical impediment is a disability. It's more a social term than a medical one.