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this post was submitted on 25 Dec 2023
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From someone who can still go with then flow even when the flow seems like its from a sewage plant: That's the neat part, I don't get over it. I can either move forward in a way that's best for me, or I can just let myself react without thinking about it, get a hollow sense of catharsis, and put myself in a worse situation where I'm gonna need more than a hollow sense of catharsis.
Yeah, it's about looking forward and never backwards. How can I best move on from here? Clean the shit off the floor and set up some reliable system of cleaning their feet after muddy walks to prevent getting more shit on the floor. Getting angry doesn't help anything, the pragmatic approach is to fix the now and make it better next time.