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[-] TheEternalBambzip@lemmy.zip 143 points 2 years ago

My wedding in 11 days. Even though I'm somewhat stressed because I'll have to travel for it and there are some moving parts, I'm excited. Wife is taking it pretty well and she is excited as well!

[-] variants@possumpat.io 44 points 2 years ago

Make sure to make a conscious choice to stop every once in a while and take the moments in, otherwise you might not remember anything because things are happening so fast on the day

[-] Maeric@lemmy.world 32 points 2 years ago

When I got married I made the decision to avoid going around to all the guests and make sure they were happy/entertained etc. At the reception I basically stayed near the main table and just enjoyed the night. If people wanted to come and chat then they could.

Remembering that it was mine and my wife’s day took a real load off and helped with a lot of the pressure of the event.

[-] TheEternalBambzip@lemmy.zip 9 points 2 years ago

Thank you for this. Exactly what I'm planning on doing. I'll just dance the night away basically.

[-] Maeric@lemmy.world 9 points 2 years ago

I can’t recommend it enough. I spent our engagement party running around making sure everyone was having a good time, and didn’t enjoy it at all. Enough was enough. Hope you have a great time!

[-] byrona@lemmy.world 4 points 2 years ago

Did the same thing with my wife! That was 9 years ago today 😋

[-] Maeric@lemmy.world 1 points 2 years ago

Happy anniversary!

[-] TheEternalBambzip@lemmy.zip 4 points 2 years ago

I literally made a comment saying the exact same thing some 10 days ago! i'll make sure I take a second and take it all in. Thank you!

[-] Nusm@lemm.ee 14 points 2 years ago

Congrats on the wedding, and I wish you a beautiful future!

[-] Dazza@lemmy.world 7 points 2 years ago

Good luck it’ll be a blast!

[-] TheEternalBambzip@lemmy.zip 2 points 2 years ago

Here's hoping!

[-] Jackolantern@lemmy.world 7 points 2 years ago

Everything will work out perfectly, congratulations!

[-] TheEternalBambzip@lemmy.zip 3 points 2 years ago
[-] StabsMcknzie@lemmy.world 7 points 2 years ago

The last 10 days leading up to my wedding were my most stressful but come wedding day it was gone all I cared about was being married to my favorite person. You’ve got this and CONGRATULATIONS!!!

[-] TheEternalBambzip@lemmy.zip 3 points 2 years ago

Yes, of course. I realize it is normal, especially seeing my wife taking it in great stride.

Thank you <3

[-] somethingsnappy@lemmy.world 6 points 2 years ago

Something will go wrong, but it won't matter. Focus on the important things

[-] TheEternalBambzip@lemmy.zip 2 points 2 years ago

That is the plan indeed! thanks!

[-] mavedustaine@lemm.ee 4 points 2 years ago

Congrats in advance brother/sister! I literally just got back from mine and it went perfectly!

[-] TheEternalBambzip@lemmy.zip 2 points 2 years ago

Thank you! and that is awesome! Congrats <3

[-] daanzel@lemmy.world 3 points 2 years ago

Hope you have a great day! Wishing you two all the best!

[-] cs127@lemmy.sdf.org 3 points 2 years ago
[-] lorez@lemm.ee 2 points 2 years ago

Congratulations!

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