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I really hate livng in a world run by neurotypicals
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this post was submitted on 18 Jul 2023
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Ignore it, friend. Nothing really matters except what matters to you.
Everyone is entitled to their opinion, and I realized a long time ago that worrying about it is a waste of.. everything.
Being online makes communication very simple (for good or for ill), but it also grants you magic powers: You can make people disappear forever at the tap of your finger.
You have more important shit to think about. I'm sure of it.
Frustrations at not seeing things the same way and needing to find ways to compensate and fit in properly with people who don’t think/feel the same way are absolutely valid, but this “they’re targeting me for being neurodivergent” mentality is totally unfounded.
You’re being downvoted because you’re ascribing dickish internet behaviour to some sort of broad-based discrimination by neurotypical people against neurodivergent people. You encountered an asshole…”NTs vs NDs” is not a thing. Besides, how do you precisely define neurotypical, and why do you assume the world is run by them? (I actually assume the opposite is true) How do you know the person/people you were engaging with were neurotypical? Why would a world created by people who do not fit your definition of neurotypical be any better to live in? There is generally more variation of people and behaviours within, versus between, large populations.
I feel like federated-not-Reddit-thingle has gotten to a point where it's really nasty sometimes :-\ People look for the worst possible interpretation (even in ND spaces like this??) and get by with just generally crappy "sit down and shut up" type behaviour, among other things. Idunno if the caring types just got bored and left, or maybe the novelty wore off and they're just less active than the ones who wanna be hateful and cruel, or maybe they've all skittered off to beehaw or someplace that doesn't even federate with instances I'm seeing some of this behaviour on (or maybe most/all? I haven't really been paying attention to that)
Am really thinking I should join them; the content (and ability to downvote the awful, which makes me feel a little better even when I don't have the time or energy to fully call out the problem) probably isn't worth the awful.