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How do you accept the things you cannot change?
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Take a deep breath. In these 5 seconds you might feel very upset at this user, and if it's something that really triggers you it might ruin your next 5 minutes or 5 hours.
In 5 days, will you really care about whatever this user had to say that got you upset? Not really right? Let alone in your next 5 weeks, months or years, this will fade to nothing but a mere trifling squabble. You have better things in life to think and be excited about and worse things in life to worry over.
My advice for something you recognize making you irrationally upset, is try to transport the "How you feel about it in 5 days" into your present mindset so that will give you better perspective.