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I hate pet memmorial posts
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this post was submitted on 27 Jan 2024
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Yeah. It’s not only rude but ugly, really ugly. Someone lost their best friend and may* not have had anywhere else to turn for support but eff them for bringing down my glee. It’s unkind and selfish, at best. Perhaps op could look within for who did what to make that shadow, and how they can befriend it.
Wtf. No one owes you their sadness, and it's beyond selfish to expect others to be upset just because you are. You adopted the pet. It's your responsibility, no one else's.
That's true for anyone not actively advocating for "share things that make me happy please but keep the sad sides to yourself, will ya?"
That is selfish. I don't expect anyone to be sad with me, but when you feel so bothered by people who want to share their grief between your happy goofy dog pictures that you complain about it, you come off as selfish.
That's not how life works. I don't go around in public telling every random stranger about my dead mom and how much I miss her. That's my burden to bear and would be completely inappropriate. The same goes for cute cat subs and there needs to be a rule preventing it.
That's not what's happening here though. A community, however open to subscriptions, is still a closed off, alibeit permiable space. It's like a community center that has a dog room. Everyone can see inside, everyone can be there, but no one is rubbing anything in anyone's faces if you enter and see something you don't like.
Yes, that is what's happening. This is a public space. There is no permission required to be here anyone can participate. Dropping your dead animal story on a crowd of people trying to brighten up their day is a dick move. That's it that's all. I'm done here. G'night!