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submitted 1 month ago* (last edited 1 month ago) by Fal@yiffit.net to c/mtf@lemmy.blahaj.zone

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So I know everyone is going to answer "yes", but I want actual real thoughts. I just want to know where I fit in.

I'm AMAB, and present as male, at least on the surface. I've always felt that was wrong though. But I don't necessarily think I'm a woman. I wish I was more feminine. And recently I started full body laser hair removal, and I have pretty long hair, and currently have my toe nails painted. But I also have a beard, and otherwise present totally as cis.

Am I "trans"? I don't feel "cis", but I feel like calling myself trans just isn't accurate and is inappropriate. Is there any other option?

And a complicating factor is that I'm basically only attracted to female presenting people. I see a lot of mtf trans people posting online "t4t". Would other trans people consider me "trans"?

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How to make a month go by as fast as possible other than sleeping (yiffit.net)

submitted 2 months ago by Fal@yiffit.net to c/asklemmy@lemmy.world

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I'm having some personal issues causing some severe depression and anxiety. I'd like to get past this time as fast as possible, and my days are dragging on. I can't sleep, which would be a good way to make time go fast. But I also can't just play video games, I don't have the motivation to play more than a few minutes and it also just makes me realize how alone I am with no friends or anyone I can connect with emotionally and I spiral into my anxiety and depression.

I can do stuff during the day, run, chores, etc. But as soon as I'm done, especially at night, I start freaking out and it seems like time stands still. Does anyone have any suggestions? Activities I can do that are mindless that will just kill time and get me through the night before I can just go to sleep?

I know this question is stupid but I'm looking for at least somewhat serious answers.

First date by Fal in c/lemmybewholesome@lemmy.world

[-] Fal@yiffit.net 61 points 2 months ago

Why wouldn't it be?

Star Trek Is Showing More Love To Scott Bakula’s Enterprise by Fal in c/startrek@startrek.website

[-] Fal@yiffit.net 43 points 2 months ago

I don't understand the hate for voyager. Sure it had some problems, but I thought it was great. Both at the time and looking back on it

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How do you connect with people and make friends without social media? (yiffit.net)

submitted 2 months ago by Fal@yiffit.net to c/asklemmy@lemmy.world

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I'm struggling to figure out how to make friends without having Instagram or any other social media. I have discord but don't use it much. I see all my acquaintances in discord channels and sharing Instagram posts and stuff. It's already hard for me to make friends, but I feel like not having any of the traditional social media means I'm not included in any of that stuff.

Do you just accept that Instagram and shit are the way people interact and use it?

Wholesome co-worker by Fal in c/lemmybewholesome@lemmy.world

[-] Fal@yiffit.net 54 points 3 months ago

No. People who don't think sexist religious conservative values should be applauded. This is basically orphan crushing machine material

voting this year so voting continues to be a thing by Fal in c/politicalmemes@lemmy.world

[-] Fal@yiffit.net 60 points 4 months ago

and any other term used to deprive Americans of their First Amendment rights

Pornography should be outlawed

Lol

Teenagers. by Fal in c/programmer_humor@programming.dev

[-] Fal@yiffit.net 55 points 5 months ago

Wtf

Friends don't let friends buy HiDPI displays by Fal in c/linuxmemes@lemmy.world

[-] Fal@yiffit.net 59 points 5 months ago

Also kde is way better about this than gnome. Especially kde 6.

Discord is blurry because it's an electron app, and electron isn't native Wayland. You can make it work with --enable-features=UseOzonePlatform --ozone-platform=wayland