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Why are people so antsy to see others in person?
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this post was submitted on 02 Mar 2024
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I think everyone just pretends to be honest. They're a few fucking weirdos who enjoy waiting 5 extra hours for their delayed flight and having to rent a car to drive to some conference that could have been conducted virtually and all that other bullshit, but I'm fairly confident that most people would prefer NOT to do that and to simply wfh. Webcams are fine with me. I have friends. I have a wife. I have a family. I don't need to see work people in real life. It literally adds zero benefit to my life. Also a lot of people suffer from chronic pain like back problems. Commutting and flying and sitting 8 hours a day in some piece of shit ergo chair from 1988 is literally torture for them. Work culture has no sympathy for disabled people. They can go get fucked. Work from home for life all you motherfuckers.
I'm the same way. I'm not anti-social, just picky with how I spend my time and with whom. I guess it's more of a reflection on my job, but work people ain't it – meaning I wouldn't be friends with most of them outside of work. As I get older, I find that I increasingly put myself first and have less tolerance for bullshit lol.
Yea. Exactly. There have only been a handful of work colleagues who i actually wanted to be friends with. I've disliked or been indifferent talking to 95% of the people I've worked with.
It depends a lot on the group of people, but sometimes introverts can prefer in person interactions. With online meetings, there's usually one person in focus and that makes it harder to pop in and speak. With in person sessions, you can speak one on one.
It depends person to person, dynamics of the team, and the costs of meeting in person.
For example, this could be more true for younger team members who may not have a strong social network / a family at home
Yeah, I've met many people who literally have never spoken up in a meeting unless called upon.... And then you meet them in person and they talk all the time.
Online dynamics are entirely different and it doesn't work at all for some people.
But for most people it's functional but much less so than in person. Humans were wired for in person interactions. Not just cropped compressed video of a persons face.