Am sort in the same position right now. Even though I do catch hints sometimes, but most of the times I miss them. Even then, rare that they are with ages passing, I still look at every potential relationship as losing freedom. It would be nice to have someone next to you, but all the drama and dedication that comes with it is hardly ever justified in my head. Not to mention family. Am right where I want in my life. I have enough money to fulfill all my dreams and most importantly I have time to fulfill them.