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I really just need to talk about this to someone. I'm in college and I've always loved to learn, but now I don't feel motivated do my school work or to study, but at the same time, when a test roles around and I don't know how to answer the questions I get stressed and care about trying to do well. I've also always beaten myself over the head about having good grades, my parents never had to push me to do good in school. I'm just so stressed about it, the semester is ending soon, and I'm scared I'm gonna fail 2 classes which will be then first time I've ever failed a class.

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[-] candyman337@sh.itjust.works 1 points 8 months ago

I find in today's society it's easy to lose any reason for doing anything other than "I was told I have to" about halfway through college it really did feel like a scam, like I was getting screwed over and forced to do it anyway. I still believe it's partially true, but I used the skills I learned in college to help push my personal life goals along.

Ask yourself, will you be happy doing what you're going to school for? Is the goal you're going towards what you actually want to do? Will it help you do what you actually want to do? If you find good reasons for those, the next time you ask yourself "why am I doing any of this?" You'll have an answer. If not, well, maybe it's time to change your concentration, or seek out paths other than college.

Just remember that you also do need to think about affording to live (unfortunately) in all of this.

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